“What path should I follow i looking for a new job and my relationship with Jose?” Claudia, Saltillo, MEX
When I ask who you are, your angels are showing me that there is a part of you which interferes with finding a suitable job as well as maintaining a solid relationship. It has to do with your “little kid” within. The part of you that grew up feeling you are not enough no matter what you do.
You don’t seem to be sure of your abilities or maybe yourself. You are also someone who needs her freedom. You don’t look at the world in the same way as many around you. Because you do see things differently, your challenge is to listen to what you know is the truth for you. It is important for you to connect with your inner guidance and pay attention to what you intuitively feel in terms of a job as well as a boyfriend. If you are honest with yourself, you can find a job that will put you in a better position than where you are currently.
Jose runs scared in terms of a relationship. His mind says he could feel trapped in a committed relationship. You may have noticed that sometimes you feel very close, and other times, he backs off. This is an opportunity for you to look at your own patterns of behavior. Notice if you tend to select men who can’t be there for you. Perhaps a parent or friend didn’t support you the way you expected. I would guess that there are times when Jose and you are very close and other times when you pull apart. This is normal, but in this relationship it is accentuated.