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Dear Angels,
"I have had problems with my hearing for the past four years.  Can the angels tell me will my hearing be restored?  Meredith, Tuckahoe, NY

Dear Meredith,
Your Angels might very well be able to tell you if and when your hearing will be restored, but this beyond my realm of expertise.

In physical terms our culture tells us that hearing loss is common as we age. In spiritual terms, your Angels share that you are releasing people in your life who no longer share your outlook. Look within and notice if your body has learned to block the judgment from others by choosing not to hear them. 

Deliberately you are moving into a place of childlike acceptance of whatever comes your way. The trick is not to block others, but to allow yourself to move into this place of acceptance and delight in the small things in life.  Your quality of life, with or without perfect hearing, will improve. You will no longer be resisting what is and therefore, what doesn't serve you, can release.

Part of your challenge is to lighten up. To allow yourself the joy of everyday life. The intensity of pushing through what we think of as our challenges in actuality creates even more barriers. Let's dance together into the joyful creation of hearing, seeing and experiencing life to the fullest.
 
 
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Dear Angels,
"What does the future hold for my love life?"  Helen, Ontario, Canada

Dear Helen,
You may remember that I do not predict the future. I only share who you are and what comes up for you based on how you view and act in the world.  What I see about you is that you are all about love and loving. You know how to be the best friend, because you are not a dependent person.  You love not because you have to hold on, but because you share yourself.  But somehow you have lost your balance.  Perhaps you're feeling like you have tried everything and nothing has worked in attracting the "right" person.

Or maybe you are more at home out of your body than in, in a meditative state than in the physical body.  If that is the case, it will be difficult for you to connect romantically.  How does one connect with someone who left their body here but their head at home. Loving and being loved requires you to be present.  Notice if you feel safe in meditation and not so safe in your body.

The possibility of a delicious love affair is just that.  A possibility.  You are easy to be with, agreeable, and caring. Your challenge is to decide what it is you want in your mate and to focus on these qualities. Do not assume because you are  (fill in the blank) that this is not for you.  You are a very high being of light and cannot be with "just anyone."  Think big. 

Assume the perfect man for you will find you attractive and allow yourself to be seen.  Do your best to take your mind off yourself and focus on the other person.  Then you will be receptive to the attentions of someone looking for a woman just like you.You have alot to offer.
 
 
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Dear Angels
"Will I be able to attend graduate school within the next year?"  Allyson , Winter Springs, FL

Dear Allyson,
Sometimes I see things that I don't understand completely, so I'll leave the understanding up to you. I see you working arduously and doing a credible job at school. There is something within you holding you back however.  Look to see if you truly believe you can get into graduate school .

Your mind is forging ahead.  What you seem to be missing is the feminine energy of  being still, of listening to the inner voice.  There is a fine line between pushing ahead with our logical minds and standing back, deliberately forgetting yourself so that you can hear what you intuitively know.  Perhaps you are thinking that you must master the rules. What if the rules include the non-rule of allowing yourself the space to assimilate what you've learned, to listen between breaths, to know that you already know what you think you do not.

You seem to be a very giving person, determined to succeed using all of your gifts.  Your Angels are showing me that studying hard is part one.  Part two is listening between breaths. Part three is assimilating the material and experiencing it   Not forcing your knowing.  You will move into graduate school but there may be a delay. It will depend on your willingness to begin to live what you have studied.  
 
 
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Dear Angels,
"My daughter Valerie, has lost 2 boyfriends. I need to know why?  First when she was 18 she lost her boyfriend of 2 years in a seadoo accident.  Then she met her 2nd boyfriend and was with him for 7 years  In Feb 2010 he died in a motorcycle accident.  She is devastated.
Why?"  Diana,  Cardiff, CA

Dear Diana,
Your Angels are showing me these two very physical young men were chasing their tails, like a dog might.  Around and around in search of physical nirvana when it was nowhere to be found.  They both trusted in their physical infallibility and lost.  Their trust was in the wrong place. 

Your daughter was obviously distraught, overcome with sadness at their deaths.  She is beginning to come out of it. She is beginning to heal. It is not as if she will ever forget.  It is rather that her deep pain, her open wound, will begin to smooth over.  For her it is about accepting she has no control.  None of us do, we only think we do.

This is a Taoist lesson of accepting  that she is whole, complete in herself. It is about letting go and allowing herself to be vulnerable once again.  There is no need to hide out. Our fear wants to guard against everything. It is only in our willingness to be open and try again, that we become whole again.  Obviously this is not an easy path. but she is on it because on some level, it was hers to embrace.
 
 
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Dear Angels,
"Did Bill have any feelings for me at all?  I made some unwise choices and ended up feeling emotionally abused...but I'm still confused by his behavior and everything that happened. Mostly I want to know if we had a past life together. Does he have a personality disorder? Does he have any idea at all,how much his actions upset and broke my heart?"  Catherine, Manchester, UK

Dear Catherine,
You've spent way too much time looking at his reaction to your behavior when you pulled the morality card on him.   He's pulled himself together now and is intent on having fun.  He seems to be a friendly, fun guy who is sociable and probably adorable as well. He saw you as a free spirit, someone open to life,  but he pulled back from you because of his own inner pain.  He's not about to allow it to happen again.

Your Angels want to say that sometimes things happen which leave us feeling slammed.  In this case it is you now, who are lost without Bill.  He's moved on.  I don't see that you had a serious relationship in a past life.  Perhaps this unfulfilled relationship is a lucky one in that it is not continuing. I do not see Bill as having a personality disorder, unless you consider wanting to play through your life a major fault.  This is about you letting go so that you can move into a more solid and suitable relationship. Perhaps you might want to work on forgiving yourself and forgiving Bill for his reactive behavior. 
 
 
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Dear Angels,
"I broke up with my old boyfriend recently because he lied throughout our entire relationship. He said he didn't drink or smoke. He wanted to get married and have a family right away.  Now I don't know if he even has a conscience because he does abuse alcohol and smoke.  I don't trust him any more.  I want to know if he has a treatable mental illness or if his substance abuses are causing him to be violent, abusive, threatening and sometimes delusional.

I live alone in the same town. Am I safe?"  Carolyn, Tempe, AZ

Dear Carolyn,
You seem to have been carrying the burden of his behavior and your broken dreams for quite awhile.  It's left you feeling sad, maybe even depressed and now you are not trusting yourself.  The first thing your Angels want to say to you is, "Pay attention here. You were smart enough to leave him before you legally committed yourself to a lifetime of lies and abuse."

You two did not have an easy relationship.  He seemed to watch out for you, which initially was flattering.  When you realized that he did not trust you, and not vice versa, you realized something was off.  He does drink and most likely is an alcoholic.  Erratic behavior runs hand in hand with alcoholism or drugs. His watching over you became suspicious spying on you, because he didn't trust himself.

Should you ever want to have some free therapy, find yourself a local Al Anon group. You will hear yourself think.  Sit through six or more meetings, and you will learn to recognize the symptoms of abuse so that you can leave a new relationship before you re-enact old behavior.  Are you safe?  Yes, unless you find yourself pulling him emotionally close.  He will feel it and come forward.  Take care of yourself by allowing yourself to take a new or different job, stay away from him, don't answer any texts or phone calls, and begin to look for new friends and ways of entertaining yourself.
 
 
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Dear Angels,
"Do you see a loving relationship coming into my life any time soon?" 
Mary, Ramona, CA

Dear Mary,
"You seem to have been holding tightly to something or some one who was not there for you.  Look backward to notice if you were watching your old mate, not trusting his behavior.  Your question is appropriate because you are being guided to look forward, to move on. You're in a new and delicious place of experiencing within yourself a more loving completion. At the same time, there is still within you the natural comparison, the judgment, that we all carry, while you try on new behavior.

The challenge for you in meeting a new special someone is that your level of consciousness is quite high, although there is no high and low.  You are most likely quite psychic and see beyond what our linear world shows us.  At the same time you have one foot stuck in wet concrete, still unable to totally let go of your past.  You are ready to experience the adventure of moving into a new relationship of give and take once you release some of your natural resistance caused by your fear of recreating your past.

 Once you awake to the fact that you are already "there," you will create what you want.
 
 
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Dear Angels,
"Four years ago I was diagnosed with Rosacea, although the doctor was unsure. I have no medical insurance so I treated myself holistically with supplements and it went away.  Recently I've been taking meds for anxiety that quelled my anxiety but my Rosacea returned with a vengeance.  Any suggestions?"  Angela, Naples, FL

Dear Angela,
Remembering that I am not a doctor and technically, know nothing, all I can do is tell you what I hear and sense.  The first is to look inwardly and see if there are times you would like to be invisible. Times when you would like to just be, but exist without the judgment of others, even if the judgment appears positive at the time.  Notice if you might like to hide out, and live your life in peace, without all the everyday stresses which may very well unbalance you hormonally.

Your Angels are showing me that your self-esteem is low, and probably was so before the Rosacea erupted.  Whatever love interest you had in your life seems not to have worked for you, so you're feeling alone. You're feeling like you've dropped into the void of nothingness. This place of nothing-happening is where all creation occurs, but our ego is terrified of not being in control. 

My suggestion via your Angels is to notify your doctor that your Rosacea has activated.  Maybe he can change his prescription. Then do whatever you can to release some of your stress;  i.e., yoga, exercise, mediation, whatever it takes to get your mind off yourself and your current challenges.  You also might google Rosacea and see what comes up.
 
 
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Dear Angels,
"Can you tell me the name of my twin flame?  I have a friend, Stacey. Could she be my twin flame?"  Michael, Lakehurst, NJ

Dear Michael,
I am not the right one to ask about your twin flame's name. I can tell you about you and your friend Stacey's connection.

You are learning the lesson of speaking your truth in a compassionate way.  What doesn't work is swallowing continually what matters to you to make someone else happy;  nor pushing your own way through with force. There is a middle ground.  Without that, anger erupts. You seem to be carrying the heartbreak of another failed romance.  Perhaps you didn't see it coming. Your ex girlfriend appeared to be the perfect woman for you, but along the way her desire for control took over and you lost.

As for Stacey, this is a woman who is closer in nature to you.  She would like nothing better than to have a committed relationship.  She carries the best of the feminine energy in a healthy way.  Not only that, but she's a lot of fun.  She sees that your perception of the world is similar to hers. She sees you as a gentle soul who wants to live in harmony.  On her own, she doesn't recognize her own inner and outer beauty.  If you allow yourself to fall in love with her, she will respond with her heart.  If I believed in twin flames, I would say that this connection has the possibility of being just that.

Please understand that what this means is that not only will you two desire similar things and ways of being, but you will also have the same emotional pitfalls. That's the rub, thank you Shakespeare. Life is about the slip n' slide of change. The constant safety of maintaining the status quo leads to zzzz.
 
 
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Dear Angels,
"How do I live in "the now?"  How to I live without judgment, I suppose mostly of myself, when someone makes a suggestion for me to end an activity they are in charge of?  How can I read their message without taking it personally?"  Brigitte, Leucadia, CA

Dear Brigitte,
Great questions.  Your Angels show me you are breaking through your old restrictive thinking, the illusions we took on when we came into these bodies.  Our linear thinking keeps us trapped in the idea that happiness and fulfillment come from outside of us. The opposite is true.  When we look outside of us, we see only the polarities of life, the linear world of me vs. you, dark vs. light, rich vs. poor.  These opposites lead us into our ongoing comparison where judgment reigns.  Some comparison is good. It keeps us on our toes, always noticing how we evaluate our world. It's the judgment of all unlike us that holds us back.

The biggest challenge of comparison is that we feel separate; we feel alone.  We think if I only had... If only I could... This thinking leaves us feeling exposed, impure, imperfect, and alone.  It gets us nowhere.  Before you throw up your hands in disgust, remember you are human. No matter what you do, you will not be perfect. Hold your dreams and try again. 

Know that you are beginning to leave behind your old way of processing that you learned in "the past." Your angst comes from your schooling of being acceptable only if you do this, or act this way, or look like this. 

You are beginning to fly beyond the prison bars of the five senses. You're the bird whose cage door has opened. Now is the time to begin to feel your freedom and trust in your inner wisdom. It is the voice of that wisdom that will guide you toward believing in yourself, to trusting yourself  and to moving beyond the self-judgment you were encouraged to use to mold you into your parents' picture of who you are. 

Once you forgive yourself for being human, you can release your self-judgment as well as lighten up on your judgment of others. You will realize that each of us is acting from what we were taught.  Some of us, like you, are beginning to open to a new existence, based on our self acceptance and delight that we are alive now. We are on the fast track to creating our dreams which are already within us. The only thing that blocks us from their physical creation is a non-acceptance of ourselves and others, exactly as we are.