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Dear Angels,
"I have a life history of unsatisfactory living situations;  I feel like a refugee.  It's time once again for me to move (before May 1).  I'd like help with my core issue of lack of stability...This is Big, and not something a brief comment will remedy, but I appreciate your reply."  Brenda ,El Cajon, CA

Dear Brenda,
You seem to have a spiritual side of you that does its best to think positively and wants nothing more than to overcome the mishaps of your life.  You're half "there."  However, there is another side of you, perhaps with "slippery fingers," which you justify because of your precarious position. It looks as if when money does come your way, you tend to mismanage it. Do you have trouble holding down a job as well?

Be honest with yourself and notice if alcohol or drugs create problems for you. The sad truth is that you have the possibility of leading a beautiful life, but not under your current self-management, or mismanagement.  Notice if people seem to find you difficult to deal with and you with them.  Notice if you have been accused of being so angry that it has created problems for you.  It can be the anger just pops up for you because you feel as if you are being mistreated, often a symptom of living with alcoholism as a child.

The unfortunate part, Brenda, is that you are an educated and attractive woman.  It is not too late to pull yourself together to pick up the pieces of your life. Once you are ready to admit that your life is not working and that maybe a little help might be a good idea, you can attend AA free any day of the week.

Millions have.  Millions have rebuilt their lives.

Dear Angels,
"I have never really thought about angels except that all my life I always felt as if I had one by my side protecting me from near death experiences I have had...I guess I am curious why a group of so called angel people have come into my life of late.  IF someone is trying to tell me something, I wish they would just do it already so we can both move forward. I think LOVE more than anything I have ever experienced or prayed to or believed in, connects US together."  Paul, Morristown, NJ

Dear Paul,
Your Angels are saying that you have changed.  Your old way of being no longer works for you. You have strong entrepreneurial abilities but you seem to get in your own way. You want to move forward in your life in a way that serves others as well as yourself, but you're feeling a little stuck. Maybe even split. There is the traditional side of you that you carry from childhood and now this non-traditional side that has emerged.  No wonder you can't figure out what's cooking.

What is needed is a new way of approaching life. The answers come from the feminine side of us, of stepping back and creating the space to ask for guidance, and then be still and listen within. For those of us groomed in action, this is like hearing, "Listen, Honey, leave the Ferrari in the garage for me and take the old Ford from now on, would you?"  Are these Angels serious?

It looks as if you are barely holding things together.  Whatever you wanted to begin hasn't happened.  In fact your life may feel like it is nailed to the floor temporarily.  The answer is to be quiet, to learn patience, and stand back while you ask for guidance.  Your zest for living will return along with your determination to succeed. You will find something that you love, something that helps others, and begin a new life for yourself.

And one more - take a look at the news. Life as we know it is changing. We are being shown a new, more gentle way to live our lives, because the old "me first" doesn't cut it. You know this already.
 

Dear Angels,
"The angels gave me a thumbs up on this relationship in October as long as we didn't live together right away. I am feeling so broken because a part of me thought my relationship with Carl was going to work. I really loved this guy since I was 20!  Why would God bring him back into my life 8 years after I walked away from him and allow all of this craziness to happen, especially when I am ready to be married and have children?"  Annette, Sarasota, FL

Dear Annette,
Your Angels want to point out that God is not exactly who you think He/She is.  God is rather an omnipresent energy of Loving Light and does not micromanage our lives. Perhaps the God Source exists not to tell us what to do, but rather to be a support for each of us to learn how to live in a physical body, and in a place of peaceful unity with all life everywhere. People come in and out of our lives, offering us opportunities to try this, try that, until we begin to understand who we are and what we need to create a balanced life.  Each of us has similar basic needs, and yet each is unique in what is acceptable behavior.

Your Angels did not tell you Carl was the perfect guy for you. They said, as I recall, that since you really wanted to reconnect with Carl, and he offered to help you "get back on your feet," that as long as you didn't live together, you could give it a try.  The challenge here is for you to understand that each of us chooses to create what we need to see about ourselves. One day we open our eyes and understand what our true self needs to live a purposeful life in a state of happiness.

The answer is always to listen to your heart.  Balance what your heart feels with what your senses tell you.  If these two do not match, you know there is work to be done. It appears as if it is time to disconnect or if you both are willing, to get involved in therapy to resolve your joint issues.

Dear Angels,
"About two weeks ago I met a guy, Judd, who's a 24 year old African American. I am 11 years older and fair-skinned. We started dating after he broke up with his ex.  She left him for another man. We are both spiritual and attracted to each other. Now he's back on tour with his ex, who's a singer.  He's not calling and seems preoccupied in our texts. I though he was going to be my future husband. Are me and him going to be together?"  Marieta, Burbank, CA

Dear Marieta,
Some times the energy surrounding a question is uncertain. This time it is quite clear.  You have allowed yourself to believe what you want because you are very sweet and loving, and perhaps a little gullible.  Your Angels are clearly saying this romance will not work out in the way you anticipated.  William has already moved on.  He sees you as a delightful and perhaps delicious dream, but he cannot imagine the two of you beginning any kind of long term relationship together, no matter what he said at the time. 

If it helps, his relationship with his ex is not working well.  However, he is determined to keep going even though it is difficult. She provides an income and he loves the attention of being "on the road" in the entertainment business.

Dear Angels,
"I want to ask my angels to speak to me about my career path.  Am I on the right one?
Vicky, Richmond, Ontario

Dear Vicky,
What your Angels are showing me is that you make money, you do a good job, but it's not where your heart lives.  It doesn't make you happy. Ask yourself if ten years from now you want to be emerged in your current field in a similar job?

What I hear is that you can't get yourself to really commit to what you do because it's not who you are.  Can you do it? Yes, but it's not your passion.  You have ongoing issues, perhaps with others, and definitely within yourself, about your job, and your path. Instead pay attention to what excites you.  What would make you feel happy about coming to work? How can you make a difference for others, and more importantly for yourself? 

What's holding you back is your sense of "going it alone."  Currently you are only going through the motions because you don't feel strong enough within yourself to look elsewhere. Instead of spending your time in a job that doesn't make you smile, offer yourself the compassion you share with others.  Take your abilities into another job where you are truly appreciated and rewarded for your work. 

Dear Angels,
"I just recently had a miscarriage. Will I ever be able to have children?"  Brittany, Melrose, FL

Dear Brittany,
You probably know that the Angels do not predict the future, but they do share what appears to be occurring. What they are showing me is that this miscarriage has trashed your picture of how you expected your life to evolve. You are feeling emotionally unbalanced, alternating between "Why me?" and feeling angry.  You question now if you will ever be able to carry to term.

Your challenge is to release your sense of injustice and allow yourself to heal.  What appears to be the worst has happened, which leaves you with an opportunity to honor yourself, heal your body, and try again.  It also looks like you have a strong bond with your husband.  Put your mind on creating a wonderful everyday life together and not on baby, baby, baby.

If you can be patient, appreciate your relationship, and move forward in your life in other ways, you will have another chance.

Dear Angels,
"Will me and my husband get our granddaughter back or will her mother?  She has her now but is doing drugs and drinking."  Shirley, Mustang, TX

Dear Shirley,
This is such a difficult situation.   I can understand your concern and sadness.  It looks as if your daughter is in no position to take care of her child.   

What the Angels are showing me is that you will have the baby returned to your loving arms, but you will have to be patient. Your daughter is in a difficult life situation and not competent to care for her own because of her addictions.  The baby will be returned to you to love and raise as your own, but you might have to be patient for a while longer.

Dear Angels,
"I would like to ask my angels if I will ever feel happy and content in my marriage?"  Noreen, Bexhill on Sea, E. Sussex

Dear Noreen,
At a high enough level of consciousness, we can create a form of happiness by leaving our bodies on the outside and finding the God within.  Like the prisoner in a camp where he is abused daily, half starved, and beaten, who manages to be released well into old age, physically debilitated but choosing to live in a state of peace.

You are not imprisoned physically, you only feel like you are.  What I see is that you are emotionally upended.  You have chosen to ignore what your inner wisdom tells you.  Instead you have lost your will, your sense of security and confidence in your own abilities. You no longer believe in yourself. You are feeling insecure and  unable to stand on your own. 

Noreen, you are allowing your husband to dump his anger onto you and then assume that he is finished, you can handle it, and begin a new day. Only each day builds on the one before.  You seem stuck, at an impasse that you are unwilling to change.

Your challenge is to realize that this relationship has separated you from not just the people who love you, but from your belief system.  You are a deeply spiritual woman who is not allowing herself to see the truth.  It is time to begin again. To let go, to relax your mind's worries about how you will create enough money to live, and trust that as you allow yourself to move forward without your husband, you will find the joy that eludes you now.

Your Angels are not telling you to divorce.  They are telling you to listen up. Living in a body is about living in joy if you allow yourself to live in love. If you are living in agony, how does that serve God?  It is your job in a body to share happiness not misery.

Dear Angels,
"I am in a relationship with Keith. I'm doing everything I can to stay calm.  It's been a tumultuous 3 months.  I would like to know if I am safe in this relationship and if there is any way that it can work out long term?  Keith says he would like to marry me and have children right away, but I don't know if he is sincere. I don't know if I can trust him. I don't know what lies beneath the surface or if something is seriously wrong with him.  I have doubts all the time and then everything is fine. Please help me."  Elise, Ft. Lauderdale, FL

Dear Elise,
Reading your question, Elise, makes my antennae stand on end.  For you to have so many doubts about your safety and your ability to trust this guy, indicates something is going on. Let's see what your Angels have to say.

Notice for yourself if you are a natural "worrier."  You appear to be hiding out in some way.  It looks like Keith is affectionate, but you are afraid to trust what he says and does.  He is optimistic about your relationship and sees you needing some help right now.  Left on his own, it appears as if his options felt pretty grim. Your sense that he is out of balance is true. Does he alternate  between being a powerful man of the world and an overly sensitive child?  Perhaps before you came into his life, he felt like he had created a mess and by helping you, he feels like he is a good guy after all.

When I ask what you need to see for your Highest Good, I see that you realize you have begun something that will not work for you. You don't feel understood, accepted or secure. You're not trusting him with good reason. You smell failure, maybe even abuse, in the air.

If you can allow yourself to trust your inner Guide, there is a new loving relationship awaiting you. It will appear for you if you are able to let go and move on.

Dear Angels,
"How will things shape up in my present 3 year relationship?  Will they get better and will we be able to spend our lives together?"  Katrina, Colby, WI

Dear Katrina,
Your Angels are showing me you are having a difficult time because you are not moving forward in your relationship in the way you anticipated.  This is a heavy burden for you to carry.  You would like to begin again with this man,  to create what you hope will be the perfect relationship.

He seems to see you as the perfect woman for him and yet he is not willing to take a stand.  His fear is holding him back. If this man is already married, or in a some kind of committed relationship, he is only going through the motions, and yet, he is unable to leave. He seems to be overwhelmed by the whole issue. 

The challenge is your relationship is split between his wife and you, and things are not moving in the way you anticipated.  Your guy seems unable to let to because his wife has refused to let go of him with out bleeding him dry physically and/or fiscally. He is afraid of the consequences.  There is nothing you can do.  You must let him decide his life for himself. 

You can live this way forever, or you can choose again.  As wonderful as he may appear, you will not benefit if he refuses to move on, whatever the reason.