Leaving Home

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Dear Angels,

“I moved here 2 months ago.  I had to get away to create new and wonderful stories for myself and the universe with my music but my children are in Christ Church. I am really happy here but would it be better for me to live with my children?”  Jackie, Hanmer Spgs., NZ

Dear Jackie,

You have the soul of an artist. It is your trust in life’s whimsy that allows you to create. When you are able to float downstream, unfettered, you feel released, free, in touch with the divine and all life everywhere. For you, being tethered to a city, to a situation where a man, I assume your husband, is caught up in his own over-sensitivity and the rules he creates to protect himself, are stultifying for you. 

As for your children, your situation is not easy for them. Their fantasies of having a whole, loving family are not playing out, but then maybe they never did.  In their own neediness, they will learn to take care of themselves.  They will learn to listen to that still small voice within for themselves. Hopefully you are not so far away that you can’t visit often, either them to you or you to them. 

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Baby Fixation

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Dear Angels,

“I have been trying to conceive for 10 years now.  It is causing major problems in our marriage.  Just wanted to ask if a pregnancy is in the future.”  Connie, Johannesburg, So.Africa

Dear Connie,

The tension that has built up for you over not getting pregnant is not only suppressing your happiness but also ruining your marriage.  You don’t feel complete without having children. 

Your husband is equally miserable. Perhaps he feels it is his “fault” that you are not pregnant. Or maybe he thinks that others will think of him as less of a man.  When our vulnerability surfaces is the time to notice we need to take a different tact. It is an opportunity to heal our heart.  Your husband feels unhappy and insecure because not only don’t the two of you have the baby you want, but now your relationship is not working either. He has lost his sense of you two as a partnership, where you love and support each other.  His hopes are crushed, perhaps not so much with the idea of not having a baby to share but with the idea that you two no longer share the love and closeness that you once did.

What can bring you the possibility of a child, aside from the obvious answer of adopting a child who needs love even more than you two do, is for you to go within. For you to be silent. To meditate. Or do yoga. Or a practice where you release the accumulated tension of your mind’s  stress from non-stop “trying.” See if you can put your mind on hold and just be. Enjoy your life together and apart.

In our limited view of life, we all feel like if we can just get a grip, if we can just get control, if All That Is would just do what we want, then life would be fine. Unfortunately, the Universe doesn’t work like this. Your resistance to what appears to be happening is creating a block to conception.

If you are able to stop searching continually for the right time for conception, and if you are able to surrender, literally, the idea of getting pregnant, so that you are no longer obsessed, there appears to be every reason for baby success. Look to see if you are having sex with your man because you want a baby. What happened to I love you for you? Once you release your will to the Divine, then just the right thing will happen, maybe even a baby. Try the novel idea of having sex just because…it’s raining, you’re sexy, I miss you.

It depends on both of you letting go, trusting that if a baby is to arrive, it will not happen when you are so busy looking that you forget the reason you came together in the beginning. You initially loved each other. You shared hopes and dreams. Now you have an opportunity to support each other with that same loving trust. Master this and you will be on your way to true success in life.

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One Step at a Time

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Dear Angels,

“My little boy and I have been living with my parents. I’ve been saving money to buy a house and am wondering if it will happen soon or if I will be moving in somewhere else. I am ready to have my own private space.”  Alana, Encinitas, CA

Dear Alana,

There is a new determination about you.  You have gathered the scattered parts of you together to begin again.  You have created some major changes in how you see life and  are willing to do your best to let life flow, not forcing it. Not resisting either.  This leads to a natural progression of what you want to have happen, to actually occur.

However, your little toe is caught between a rock and a hard place.  One part of you can’t wait to break out of your current situation. The other part is stuck in fear.  Perhaps those around you are not positive or undermine you in some way.  You will need to watch that if you really want to move on, that you listen to your heart. Getting your passion back and belief in yourself has been a long, hard struggle. You must watch that you get out from under anyone who recreates the old depression.  Monitor your feelings. Just notice when you are with others who make you feel confident and who makes you feel like you can’t do anything.  Stay away from the latter. If that’s your family, I’m hearing you will be much happier on your own.

I want you to be able to buy your own home, but I’m sorry to say I don’t see it today.  What I do see is a renewed drive in you.  You are not a fighter and you need to get out of any atmosphere where you feel judged constantly.  I see you finding not exactly what you want, but much better than what you have currently because it is your space, your home.

Think of steps. You don’t vault the whole flight at a time.  Instead you climb one by one. A baby step at a time.  You might even get a new job. Look for a living  situation where you have some nature – a yard or by a canyon or even a park.  It is calling you to join in.

 

 

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Taking Time

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Dear Angels,

“I ask advice from my angels to my situation now and coming weeks.”  Tarja, Vihti, Finland

Dear Tarja,

You seem to have turned an emotional corner, and it took tremendous courage to do so.  Your angels are saying that there is no point in resisting what life delivers. Instead flow as best as you can with the difficult time you are currently going through.  Your normal delight in life will carry you through these tough times.

You are all about creating a sweet home front and are doing your best to release any thoughts of anything wrong. It’s not easy however, and not something that will settle for you immediately. It appears as if you have made up your mind to move forward in a way you hope will succeed. Once you commit to your path, your life will begin to right itself, although not immediately. 

The many gifts of living in your heart and abundance are normally yours. They will return but perhaps not for awhile.  The angels are showing me an oak growing strong and beautiful from a tiny acorn. It all takes time.

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Pursuing Justice

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Dear Angels,

“I am wondering if my late husband’s murder will ever be solved?”  Linda, El Cajon, CA

Dear Linda,

Please know that everything I am about to say to you is from the Higher Consciousness of the angels. They are showing me that you are determined to have this case solved. You have and are continuing to pursue whatever path opens to lead you and others to the killer.

The problem is this is giving you no peace. Your life has been cut as short as your husband’s. You remember the feeling of being loved and protected, but you have forgotten how to embrace life today, how to participate in the camaraderie of being with others. For your own well-being, it is time to reconnect with all that life has to offer.

Will the case ever be solved? It looks possible.  There seems to be a cruel young man whose identity will be exposed, probably through some other crime.  It won’t be a pretty situation, but it looks like the killer will be found.

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Job Hunting

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Dear Angels,

“In which month will my husband, Roger, get a job?”  Vaishali, Overland Park, KS

Dear Vaishali,

You are completely ready to accept you and your husband’s good fortune of finding the perfect job, but your financial woes are looming large.  You may be feeling alone in your spiritual understanding of life as well.

Your husband, Roger, is a gentle soul who is beginning to feel discouraged. He is worried about your financial condition.  The answer is simple and yet the most difficult for us all.

The answer is to let go. To surrender to the God Source. Surrender, as you may very well know, is to completely, totally, put your mind on hold and trust that the perfect job is coming.  We have moved into an intense energy. When we are in fear, we create lack. When we are “in love,” as they say in “The Course in Miracles,” we create joy.

What’s come up is for you both to understand is that this is the lesson here. Nothing else. Everything else will somehow resolve. Maybe not in the way you hope, but you will not go hungry.  The lesson for you as well as the rest of us, is to imagine the perfect job. Feel it. See it. Hold the picture in your mind. Know it with your whole heart as if it has already happened. Be so sure that it is a “fait accompli” that the two of you talk about this job, his job, as if it has already happened. As if he is already working in it.

In this way, the deadlock that has been created regarding finding the right job, will begin to move on. Your husband will find a job but it is still ahead. To determine what month you need an Ayuvedic astrologer, and not me. Either way, the lesson is the same. Act as if what you want has already happened. Every time you worry the problem “to death,” you are only putting his job further into the future.

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Opening Your Eyes

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Dear Angels,

“Will I ever find my true love?”  Leila, Bermuda

Hi Leila,

Ah Leila, you are so ready.  You are receptive, aware, open and already living in the higher consciousness. It is your gift of accomplishment from fine-tuning your vibration that allows you to hope that you will find what your heart’s desire. 

It doesn’t appear that you want for prospective suitors. In fact there is someone new approaching now.  Take a look at yourself to notice if you are looking too much through your physical eyes and not through the “eyes” of your soul. It’s as if your intuition leads you in one direction and then another, which prevents you from seeing clearly. This creates a confusion that blocks you from your truth and the relationship you desire.

It is from the quiet within that you will be able to intuit which guy to trust. What I’m hearing about you is what many of us are going through right now. On one level we understand and do our best to live through our loving heart. On another level, however, we are still in a body and living from the old family pictures of ourselves  that we were brought up to believe are Truth. They are not.

Your angels are saying, “Open your eyes Leila.  We send you men but you don’t see.” As you are able to release the old limitations that you might not even realize you are holding, you will release your old patterning as well and allow yourself to create the relationship of your dreams.

 

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Rough Waters

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Dear Angels,

“I love and appreciate all of my angels.  My daughter passed and my life has been turned upside down.  I promised her that I would stay here and go on with my life.  I have let go of a lot of stuff and people that I do not need in my life.  My question is, what changes are taking place in my life?  What can I expect? Most important, how can I find out what all my gifts are so I can start using them?”  Helen, Spring Valley, CA

Dear Helen,

You are here today to burn off centuries of mis-thoughts and mis-doings of not just you today, but who you were/are in all your incarnations.  You are here today to be a clearing house, releasing the old ways of living in the third dimension. You are here to move through the sometimes painfully slow and heavy energy of our 3D world.  What could be more agonizing than losing your child? 

In spite of this uphill trudge, you keep at it. You feel like you have no purpose. That you are not going anywhere.  “Where would you like to go?” your angels ask. You live in the world of the dead. We all live in the world of the dead, because the dead are not. They are as alive as they always were, but in our 3D world we don’t see them.  The best part of your day is when you sleep and allow yourself to connect lovingly with your daughter.

You are here to learn to let go. To understand that when your beloved daughter transitioned, she did not die. Her body sloughed off but she is still with you.  You know that for sure. What you aren’t so sure about is what you are still doing here. You are here to make peace within you. To understand and perhaps to  share that death is not what we were taught.

You have grown fearful of so much alone time. Perhaps bored with what you think is the purposelessness of your life. In the past did you depend upon your daughter to fill you with that missing spark of life? The spark of real love is what you still search for.

You are looking in the wrong place. Look within. You are part and parcel of Unconditional Love. It is acknowledging this love within you that will allow you to take it out in the world to share with those in your position who haven’t learned yet.  There are many in unending grief who don’t understand that their loved one(s) are still with them. I know you do. 

Your gifts are abundant. You have walked through fire and are here to validate that life is not the same, but you are okay.  Once you start sharing your life, maybe even your story, you will find many who are waiting to learn from your self-healing and benefit from your wisdom.  You will reconnect with life and find joy in helping others through the rough waters you just came through.

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Getting Pregnant

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Dear Angels,

“I would like to know if I will conceive soon and if there is anything I should do to help my ability to get pregnant?”  Janice, Warwick, UK

Dear Janice,

You, dear Janice, are all heart. There is nothing that suits you better than being mommy. Your angels are showing me that in your desiring to be a mother, you are actually, in Zen terms,  creating a block.  Desiring leaves you in that place of wanting instead of receiving.  Getting pregnant is always in the future. Use your quiet space to go within, knowing all is in perfect order.

Your guy seems to be an achiever who knows how to make his way in the world.  He doesn’t seem to be in the same place as you, however. He’s a little torn. Perhaps he needs convincing that your relationship will continue, or that you will support a child together.  Notice if he seems afraid that a baby will change your shared life in a way that doesn’t seem all that positive for him.

It looks as if a new job with more money is coming his way shortly.  Perhaps that will appease his worries. He is a man who likes to have his finances in order.

I would love to tell you that I see you getting pregnant yesterday, but that’s not showing up.  My suggestion is to release your hold on what “needs to happen,” and allow yourself to relax, knowing that when it’s right, you’ll get pregnant. I know this is exactly what you don’t want to hear, but I am only the conduit for the angels’ wisdom.

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Creating Life

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Dear Angels,

“I would like to get a message from my angels about my life journey.  What is the next step for me?”  Charrise, Chicago, IL.

Dear Charrise,

What a wonderful question!  Although your  current financial situation is in a state of upset, your angels want you to know that this too shall pass.  There are two interesting and diverse parts of you butting heads right now. 

You tell yourself you are open to receive, open to begin, open to what the Universe brings your way, but are you? It is rather that you are partially open, but only too ready to step back at any sign of being rebuked or refused. It’s as if you have one hand open to give and the other is pulling back before you can commit. Or perhaps you act as if you want to go for it and yet there is a part of you holding back, so that you don’t follow through.

You have been stuck in place for quite a while, as if you were afraid to speak up for yourself, afraid to take a stand. Perhaps those around you appeared to be holding you back.  The old sense of interference from others has moved off. You are ready to take the risk and move into the next stage of your life.

You have been trapped like the rest of us in your head. Your angels are saying it is time to drop into your heart and  trust that you will be guided. In your current position, you are stretched way too thin. There is nothing left to do except trust that all will be well and take the leap into the unknown “future.”  It is a time of allowing. Of trusting what you can’t see. Of knowing that all is well in spite of appearances to the contrary. And, unlike the average female non-action mode, it is time to take a risk, going for what matters for you in everyday life; and of course, trusting in the Unseen. 

You, Charrise, are a mystic at heart. You know how to create life. You don’t need to become someone. You already are.  For you the challenge is to acknowledge you’ve got the answers already and allow yourself to own the finely honed being of light you are already.

You are in perfect alignment to open up to the gifts, your gifts, of 2012.

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