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Courtesy Ramsiel, Love&LightWorld

Dear Angels,

I have made some terrible mistakes in my life and feel crippled by guilt for them.  I desperately need guidance to get over these mistakes and create the happy life my wife and children deserve. Please help me.”  Mark, London, UK

Dear Mark,

There is not a human being alive, if they are honest with themselves, who has not had variations of this thought.

No matter what happened in the past that has created this remorse, what you can do is begin again, today. Make amends to those you hurt. Apologize. Ask for their forgiveness and if you are still involved with these behaviors that you think are so odious, then either go for counseling to help you let go or join AA to back up your intention with real hard core inner work (it’s free.)  You are ready to move forward, to create a change, now.

Your mind is creating havoc with your life.  It’s thrashing you, reminding you of all your perceived misdeeds from the past, and your projected screw-ups into the future that leave you flailing about in the present. The answer is to look at yourself as if your best friend was talking to you.

It is only through facing your “misdeeds” head on that you will be able to detach yourself enough to make changes.  You have been holding yourself way too tightly for too long. You still have a drive. Use it to be the man that you really are. The guy that other people like and want to trust.

The ego-mind always wants to be in control. The only real answer is to let go of your control. To realize when you listened inside before, you heard only the squawking of your ego. The problem is you are trusting the wrong part of you. Instead, if you partner with your Inner Guidance and trust that that Still Small Voice speaks the truth, you will be able to pull yourself together to begin again. 

One more … You must face that you have been holding on so tightly to your emotions for fear of losing control, that the exact opposite has happened. You have no control. You must learn to share the real you by allowing yourself to break down. You are locked tightly in the prison of your own mind.  Without allowing the dam to break, you might break first.

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Courtesy Ramsiel, Love&LightWorld

Dear Angels,

“What is my life (career) purpose?  I know I want to work for myself and I am just really confused. I am having a very difficult time getting clear answers on this subject. Maryann, Yachats, OR

Dear Maryann,

Oh my gosh, Maryann, you have been through “it!”  Something has happened in your life, maybe your mate leaving, or threatening you, that has left you hanging emotionally by your fingernails.  This is a place of transformation and it’s important to look at it this way.  Most of us don’t make scary changes in our lives until something knocks us out of our comfort level, even if that level was not so high before. 

You are worried, terrified perhaps, to step up and into bigger shoes. You’re feeling as if you have been taken advantage of when you were doing your best to make your situation better.  Your Angels are saying to be careful to take threats from others seriously and get out of harm’s way.

Your challenge is to understand that nothing in life is stable.  We are made of energy and energy changes. The trick is to ride the wave and not resist. To understand that life presents us with opportunities which feel like anything but. It is time to ride the wave in terms of working for yourself. To think about how you want to feel in your life. What do you want, and then set your intention to create it.

Your Angels’ purpose is not to tell you what to do, but rather to support you in the doing. When you ask and don’t seem to receive an answer, what’s really happening is one of three things:

1.  The time is not right to step forward to begin something new.  It is time to allow yourself to balance in whatever way you can and continue asking.

2.  You are asking but too scattered to listen. My suggestion is that you do something that relaxes you.  Sitting numb for hours in front of the TV doesn’t count.  Asking from a place of desperation doesn’t produce results. Believe me when I say, I know how this one works.

3.  It is time to let go and let God. The idea is to focus on how you want to feel in your perfect job. Imagine yourself working alone. Where are you?  What are your gifts? What is your training? See yourself happily fulfilled even if you have no inkling of what to do. 

We all have to learn to give up our control in order to be able to take it back.

If we are living in a perpetual tug of war with the Universe, we makes ourselves nuts. You seem to have issues that are not work-related, but emotionally threatening. Notice if you feel compromised. As if you have been ignoring your own wishes to please someone else, perhaps for so long that no longer do you know what makes you happy. Your normal boundaries seems splintered.

You are a sweet woman who seems to have lost herself temporarily. You have to find her first, perhaps by spending time looking at you. Don’t be afraid. You don’t have to share. If you are feeling like you are being judged constantly, it might be time to get some help psychologically.  Or even through AlAnon or AA, where for a couple of bucks you can listen to others share their similar issues. There is no finger pointing. No judgment. Just support. When you are ready, you talk. When you are not, that’s fine as well.

You deserve to share your kindness with you. You think you can fix others but now you have the opportunity of fixing yourself. No one can do that for you because you must honor yourself first or you will go into “replay” automatically.

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Courtesy Ramsiel, Love&LightWorld

Dear Angels,

“Is my future life and love to be physically together with Jerry soon?”  Kari, St. Paul, MN

Dear Kari,

The challenge for you is that you are seeing yourself as if you are still a powerless little kid who can’t make anything happen. You’re feeling trapped, held captive by your thoughts.  It is your work for this lifetime to accept that there is no longer anyone holding you back except you. You can create the life you want but you have to be courageous enough to open your emotional gates and step through. Take a chance. Trust that you have so much more to offer than what you believe about yourself.

Your challenge is to stop comparing yourself to every one else, although we all do. There is nothing holding you back from creating a happy relationship and future but your inner picture of who you are. You are like the horse always at the gate who never runs the track.

Your angels are suggesting that you begin in a small way.  Put Jerry to the side in your mind for awhile and work on you. Create each day where you begin to take back some small part of you and your life.  You have given your true self away and therefore are not able to create good things, including a lasting relationship.  In losing yourself, you have lost your emotional balance.

Begin to let go. To trust in the Divine within. And to step out, one baby step at a time. When we rehash what we think of as our fatal mistakes, and when we feel guilty for not being what we think we are supposed to be, we get to a place where we are so busy punishing our self, that we unable to create a positive life today.

It is time to release your past by realizing that the judgment of others comes from their own self-doubt and guilt. It is not who you are. You are hiding your inner beauty by repeatedly punishing yourself. It is time to let go and move on, whether it’s with Jerry or someone else.

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Dear Angels,

“I am looking for my soul mate lady.  I’m 44. Still single. When can I expect to get one?”  Jayant, New Delhi, IN

Courtesy Ramsiel, Love&LightWorld

Dear Jayant,

Sometimes people ask about a partner but there are too many distractions for them to notice when someone shows up. You do not seem to be this way. Your intention is clear. The good news is that you are learning to love and respect yourself.  In doing this,  you make it easier for another to love you.  You have learned to be comfortable in your own body. You know who you are and what you require to be happy.

You are changing and ready to begin a new stage of your life.  You have spent enough time “on the mountain,” enough time preparing, and are ready not only to ask for what you want but also to receive it.  With your eyes open, you will find your mate.

Life always seems to have a “but.” The but is that you no longer want to be alone yet you must trust as you walk your path, that you are being guided.  A relationship has either come for you already or will shortly. It is one where the two of you are aligned in the Light together yet each of you is following your heart, but perhaps on a slightly different path. 

If you allow it, this can be a beautiful relationship where you can each be yourself, a match of loving with a minimum of controlling.

Master this and you’ve got it!  If it all seems too good to be true, it can be because in the past you thought you had found the right one but she was unable to manage her emotions in a way that supported her or you.

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Courtesy Ramsiel, Love&LightWorld

Dear Angels,

“How may I serve myself with love?” Roxanne, SA

Dear Roxanne,

Interesting question from an interesting person. You seem to be having a problem common to many spiritually open people. How do you integrate your age-old knowledge into your everyday life? 

At the same time, you are dealing with personal issues that you have yet to master. You have been given the gift, although it doesn’t seem like it currently, of learning to stand up for yourself. This seems to be a life issue for many women, myself included.  Our fear of self-assertion can knock us off our feet, when if we only saw “it” coming… but we didn’t, because we were afraid to look. If we don’t look, then we can fool ourselves into pretending that we didn’t do anything. It is not our problem. If we just stay out of the way, then we’ll be okay.

This is not the answer to loving yourself. The answer for the heart-centered is to accept that keeping your boundaries is a life-long issue for you. 

Perhaps it is difficult to see you are a natural leader because of your integrity of spirit. You have ethics. You care about people.  As you allow yourself to step forward, to hold your ground when you know you are in your heart, then others will follow. 

You have the heart of an artist. In allowing yourself to practice your natural inclinations, you will express what others are not aware of within themselves;  or if they are, you will express the heart of you, your love, through your work, whether is is gardening or painting. 

The Divine wants to speak through your hands, your heart and your vision.  In loving the part of you that is your true core,  not only will you be expressing love for yourself, but for all of humanity, whether it is exhibited through a 3 ft garden plot or clay sculpted into a blob that only you can decipher or sharing your love with a lonely child.

Serving yourself a good dollop of love comes from sharing the true you hidden underneath your lovely exterior.

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Courtesy Ramsiel, Love&LightWorld

Dear Angels,

“Will I ever feel permanently safe and satisfied with life, ever?”  Michelle, Ontario, CAN

Dear Michelle,

No wonder you are writing. You are in a difficult place, but not without hope. 

The everyday, “Oh this again…” of life is getting to you.  Notice if you wanted  something so badly, you thought your life would come to a halt without it.  As you pointed out in your question, when you got what you thought you wanted, you were still not  happy.

You hold a picture of yourself as someone very powerful.  This someone is you in another life. You were the healer, the one who could mix healing potions both emotionally and physically.   There is a memory of your power that still hangs on for you.  What you have yet to learn is that this power came not from you, but from the Divine through you.  You were the conduit.

Instead you have used your power in this lifetime to take what you want, perhaps without consideration of others.  Be honest with yourself and face that you might very well have a substantial problem with alcohol or other addictive behavior.

If your relationships have fallen apart, you tend to be depressed, and the best part of your day begins after you begin drinking, my suggestion is you give AA a try.  Fabulous people emerge from AA backgrounds but it is not for the weak of heart. It takes guts to admit, “I’m so messed up I am willing to do something about it. ” Why would you do that? Because in your heart of hearts, you want a different life AND you deserve it.

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Courtesy Ramsiel, Love&LightWorld

Dear Angels,

“Jesus is God’s name?”  Tina, Fay, NC

Dear Tina,

I was not going to post my answer to your question because I was concerned I would be bombarded with hate mail. Oh well. Too late now.

First I want to assure you that I am no different from you, Tina. Most likely I have more years studying, meditating, praying and living. I have been working with the angels consciously since the mid 1980s. I have lots of practice asking and receiving.  That being said, I am hoping that you will read this and run it through your own mental and emotional filters. Take what works for you and leave the rest. All I can do is share my heart with you.

I have come to believe that Jesus is God. Tina is God as well.  The bum on the street is God. I am God. The difference is that Jesus understood his connection with the Divine. He didn’t forget. He lived his life on the planet from a place of Unconditional Love, God Him/Her/Itself. 

If I have you more confused now than before, it is because the rules of our planet were formed to keep control of us by encouraging us to think we are confined to time and space. A Quantum Physicist, named Max Planck, figured out that there is no space. Everything that appears to be empty space is packed with information known as particles.

Another physicist, David Bohm, discovered that underlying everything we think of as time and space, is a level of intelligent existence that birthed our planet and everything on it. This pool of Intelligence (God) is often called the Zero Point Field, The Field, or as Deepak Chopra says, “the field of infinite potentiality.”

There is no time either.  Time only exists on our planet. No time means there is no past, no present, no future. There is just here and now, eternally in the present.

To return to your question, you and I and Jesus are all God. We are all one underneath our external physical bodies. Even the murderers are God. They just don’t know or care to look within us where all the answers lie.  Many of us spend our entire lives looking outside of ourselves for answers. We can recognize when we are doing this because we will tend to point our finger of blame at someone else.

Remember to ask and to allow yourself to receive as well. The answers to life are always within you.

Jesus knew that he and God were one. He knew that he was aligned in The Light. He also understood that he had to die his brutal death so that others could see that he did not die spiritually; he did die physically.  Still, after thousands of years we have difficulty understanding because we believe the physical is life. Anything unlike the physical is spiritual and we don’t give much credence to that because most of us connect through our five senses. The sixth sense is too “out of the box.”

If I have left you more confused than before, I apologize. All I can say is keep praying. Keep asking for guidance.  Keep studying. Eventually you will know The Truth for yourself.  

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Courtesy Ramsiel, Love&LightWorld

Dear Angels,

” I am asking my Angels if I will be able to get the money to save my house from being taken away by the bank?”
Ernest, Grays, UK

Dear Ernest,

Obviously, this is not a happy situation.  You seem to have a good attitude, but the woman in your life is not helping this situation.  She is especially difficult  when her status feels threatened.

Will you be able to save your house?  I see you open and expecting the best. On the other hand, it appears that this is a difficult situation. As of today, I am sorry to say that it doesn’t look like you will come out on the winning side.

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Courtesy Ramsiel, Love&LightWorld

Dear Angels,

“I am writing because my sister just passed away suddenly at the age of 42. I need to know if she forgives me and loves me.  Also who my angels are and if they are with me and how many?”
Heather, Wallaceburg, Canada

Dear Heather,

You’re a positive young woman who sees the world through the eyes of loving acceptance. In looking at your sister, you are hoping that she is about to create a positive new life for herself and see you with the love you feel for her.

Your sister has many positive attributes and appears to have been  attractive and outdoing in her life, but perhaps a little resentful.  Right now she is in a contemplative place where she is safe but not her normal self as yet.  She is looking at her part in her life experiences and feeling remorse for those times when she didn’t consider the feelings of others, including you.

The pain that she is feeling currently has nothing to do with her death, but rather her realization of how her revengeful behavior blocked a happier relationship.  At the same time, she is realizing that she is experiencing the opportunity to let go and move on.

As for angels, there are always angels with us all. How many makes no difference in my opinion. It all depends upon your spiritual development.

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Courtesy Ramsiel, Love&LightWorld

Dear Angels,

“Two years ago I lost my daughter, Mary, at 5 months into my pregnancy and now I am having trouble achieving another pregnancy.  Do you see things that can help me and my boyfriend Art to help us have a healthy child together?”  Esther, Hickory Creek, TX

Dear Esther,

You seem to be in an emotionally difficult position where you want to hang on tightly to what has left already. In doing that, you are not allowing yourself to move on.  Perhaps you expect that having a baby will give you a focus in your life; or that a baby will answer the question of who am I?  Instead what is up for you is an opportunity to live your life as if you have everything already. An opportunity to trust that when the time is right you will have a child with the right person.

It looks as if  you are doing your best to maintain your emotional balance but it is not an easy path for you.  Doing your best to control your own life seems to create a perpetual tug of war.

The answer is to allow yourself to live a fulfilling life minus a baby now. Perhaps your partnership with your boyfriend Art is not the answer for you. Notice if you are seeing the loss of your pregnancy as more than the sad event that it is. Did you view your pregnancy as an answer to what to do with your life? Or maybe as a way to keep Art in tow?

None of these things are the answer to a happy life. No matter what happens, baby or no baby, the answer is always the same. Look within to find the peace and joy that you so want. It is not outside of you.