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Dear Angels,
"Suzy I really need your help. I feel so lost. Are Stephen and me meant to be?  Am I pregnant?  I feel so confused and distressed and alone. Everything seems perfect but I don't know." Katie, UK

Dear Katie,
First things first. I do Not see you pregnant. Obviously there was a possibility or you would not have asked.  Please be more careful so you don't have to go through this again.

As for you and Stephen, your big challenge is you. Most likely you know that the energy is changing on the planet. We are all learning that what we think we create. Your constant worry is creating problems where there are none.  Your Stephen used to love you and have fun with you. It's still there for him. What he is trying to deal with is your constant angst.

In your desire to control life, which by the way cannot be controlled except by letting go of control, you are spiraling the relationship downward. This is not him. This is you.  Learn to do something to soothe your anxiety.  Physical activity often helps. Yoga. Deep breathing.

Stephen wants to continue your relationship and seems to care for you, but your proclivity to imagining disaster, is not easy to take.  If you can temper your anxiety and expect the best, the relationship can more forward. He would like it to continue. If you allow yourself to worry non-stop, he will eventually move on. 

Dear Angels,
"Is Joey miserable without me in his life?"  Janicette, Miami, FL

Dear Janicette,
This is interesting.  You both seem to be better off without each other.  You are a level-headed woman who knows how to take care of herself. You see him as both wonderful and impossible.  You understand that the two of you have issues that you kept bumping up against, not the least of which is you wanted to be married and he did not. You just seem to be pulling yourself together after accepting the finality of you leaving.  Your Angels are cheering!

Joey sees you as having gone over the top when he didn't want to commit, even though he used to see you as a beautiful and compassionate woman.  Emotionally, you were too much for him. He prides himself on his non-conformity so refuses to compromise.  Not an easy package, especially for someone who prides herself on her compassionate nature.

Is he doing okay without you?  He is not the kind of man to sit around and mope forever.  His ego gets in the way of introspection.  He's throwing himself into business. He is determined to begin again.  He will also do okay because he knows how to talk the spiritual game as well as succeed in the world.

Dear Angels,
"My co-workers and I have been having some stressful work problems related to an unfair supervisor.  Some of the upper level hospital staff are supportive of me and are hoping to encourage her to seek employment elsewhere.

I enjoy my work and my co-workers. What is the outcome of this messy situation?  Will she leave?" Karina, Rochester, MN

Dear Karina,
I'm seeing that you are a hard worker.  You are self-disciplined and do not need someone else to tell you what to do.  It appears as if you are being micro-managed and you definitely do not like it nor need it.

From your supervisor's viewpoint, it is her job to be top of whatever is going on.  Her tendency, unfortunately for you, is to watch your every move. Obviously, you two do not get along. She knows this as well as you.  She is hoping you will decide to move on. If you have been bad-mouthing her, it is getting back to her, or else she just intuitively feels your dislike.  This is not helping your cause.
She is looking for any reason to get you transferred or released.

The answer is to begin to see that by holding a grudge against her, is to ask for the same. You have two choices.  One is you can continue to let your self-righteous anger eat away at you and the job that you like.  The other is to realize what you resists, persists.

By this your Angels mean that thoughts are real and create what happens. Do your best to understand that your supervisor is responsible for running a safe and tight department. Perhaps if you do your best to improve your work habits even more and stop sending daggers her way, she will let up on you. 

Will she be encouraged to leave?  Her challenge is that she knows her people skills are not working well for her and others. She realizes it but doesn't know what to do about it. Perhaps if she is shown that we all want to be with people who appreciate us, she will look elsewhere. 

As it stands, all you can do is manage your own feelings by discontinuing your negative thoughts and replacing them with an acceptance of why she is acting as she does. She is afraid of losing her job if everything is not perfect. Add to that the thought that if anything goes wrong, the fault is ultimately hers, and you will begin to understand why she acts as she does.

Dear Angels,
"I am desperate!  I do not know how to heal myself.  I am in a divorce process and have a lot of resentment, grief, depression, sadness, but the worst thing of all is I am blaming and beating myself all the time!  I am suffering so much! I want to move on and I cannot."  Maria, Nicosia, Cyprus

Dear Maria,
Although you sound like you are at the end of your emotional rope, I see that you are determined to begin again. This is healthy behavior and I congratulate you on your attitude.

When we are going through our own emotional turmoil, it is difficult for us to see that our world is going through its own.  It is a time of upheaval, of old forms and old ways of being letting go as we embrace a new way of living.  You are primed for this. Your soon to be ex-husband is not.

When first you were married, I would guess that you saw him as the perfect man. Now he is not so nice. He is probably somewhat of a bully, demanding his own way, and removing himself emotionally so that you are shut out.  It's important for you to see this because often we women, think, "If I had only done something differently..."

Your soon to be ex wants to be free. He sees you as needing to control the relationship, when he is the one who wants to do this. He is used to being the decision maker, so this does not sit well with him.

Your Angels are showing me that your challenge is to look at this as an opportunity to begin again. You will h to select a new partner, once the legal mess is out of the way. You are a powerful woman who could benefit from some personal counseling to support you and lead you through this taxing time so that you do not attract this situation next time.

Dear Angels,
"Ted and I have been living together for 2 years.  We love one another very much, but he has not asked me to marry him,  We are both in our fifties. The angels tell me he will, but I need your opinion"  April, Tooele, UT

Dear April,
Your relationship with Ted has left you on uncertain ground.  When I look at your energy, it is obvious Ted makes you feel loved and happy.  On the other hand, there seems to be an undermining concern of "What if he leaves me?  What if he falls in love with someone else?"

This one thought seems to be skewering your relationship.  Ted seems to be perfectly happy with you, but doesn't feel like he can be himself.  Notice if you are imagining him behaving in ways that he is not.

Ted's thoughts are far from marriage, although I see him working consistently on making your relationship work.  Your Angels suggest you check your own heart and clear out your undermining doubts.  Marriage will not change your sense of safety if you are not feeling secure within yourself.

Dear Angels,
"A male friend from the past has come into my life again and I want to know where it is going?  Will we just be good friends or something more?"  Karen, Somersworth, NH

Dear Karen,
I could answer this in one line, by saying your friend is commitment phobic.  That being said, I see that you have worked hard on yourself to release this guy.

When you were with him before, you did everything possible to encourage this relationship. I would guess that he knows how to make things happen in a worldly sense.  He presents well, but you are the one who is the true support emotionally. He's probably smart and accomplished in his profession, but you want and deserve a man who connects heart to heart. 

Your Angels are saying, rather louder than usual, "It didn't happen before.  What makes you think it will this time?"  If you choose, he will be open to reconnecting your relationship. Just remember that what you want most likely will not happen.

Dear Angels,
"I want to know if Evan, the guy I am currently talking to, is going to ask me to be his girlfriend?  Or is he just keeping me around as his friend for his own personal gain?"  Should I move on or give us more time?"  Charnise, Chicago, ILL

Dear Charnise,
Looks as if you are doing all the "work" here in this non-relationship.  You seem to be the one encouraging Evan, the one treating him as the "chosen child," the one doing everything.  The problem is nothing has worked. You are no closer than you were in the beginning to having a somewhat committed relationship with him.

Evan is a self-absorbed guy who enjoys all the attention he can possibly amass.  In terms of moving ahead with you, it's not a goal of his. He's happy the way things are.  He's got everything he wants and not interested in anything else.

Your Angels indicate you deserve better, and perhaps it is time to begin something else that will fulfill your mind and desires.

Dear Angels,
"Where can I go?  What can I do to find a job? I used to live in VA where I sold my own inspirational artwork and did custom framing. Here I have held various teaching jobs both part and full time. I think my strengths are in the art field, or else with children.

No job has even felt right.  I am now unemployed and without inspiration.  I would like to do something that aligns with my life purpose and of course utilizes my talents and abilities.  I am open to something completely new. "  Catherine, Santa Fe, NM

Dear Catherine,
The malaise of feeling stuck with nothing moving is in the air. It's what I call the pre-enlightenment energy. 'I've done all this work on myself, so why am I here of all places?"   Your Angels find this amusing.  The word is to do your best, stay put or move on, but don't push yourself.  As with all things, one of these days, the fog will clear and you will know what is right, which path to take, and which action is forward.  Today is not the day yet.

What I see about you is you are a spiritual dynamo.  You are a bright light in the fog of life, but today, you need to shine your light on yourself.  You're feeling sad, maybe even a little depressed and you're afraid to begin anything for fear of making the wrong decision.  "Again," your mind says.

You're concerned that you, Miss Invincibility, is losing her passion.  Not only that, but it's so unfair.  The challenge is to know that you are a master of balance, in spite of appearances to the contrary today.  Perhaps you are being offered the opportunity to balance your work life with your play life, your mind and your heart.  You are an exceptional person.  The trick now is to allow yourself to trust that who you are and how you live your life, will come back into harmony.  Do your best not to resist this quiet space.  Do anything with kids and art that comes your way to feed and house yourself. Be open with all your intuitive sensibilities, to accepting where you are today, while opening to something more exciting and fun for you.

Notice if it is possible that this is a time of the seesaw?  The time of trying out how it feels to live in someone else's shoes? This place of indecision, so difficult for us all, is the time where we learn to surrender our will and ask for guidance. Not from me, but rather the Source of All that Is.  It's the time when we learn who we really are underneath our education and good looks. 

As for today, have you tried putting a flier up to offer art classes for kids for the summer? Or a blog offering your services to tutor or teach the creative freedom of art to kids who are crammed into a tiny space and told this is their life?  You have an exuberance that wants to be shared that children as well as adults need to experience. 

Dear Angels,
"My ex-boyfriend's name is Art.  Will he be asking me back?"  Tracey, London, ENG

Dear Tracey,
Your Angels are showing me that you are not feeling like your normal, in control, self. You're okay but you would like to be able to change the course of events.

What Art is showing me is he felt intuitively, this was not going to work out, but he didn't listen to his gut.  He seems to have no interest in rekindling this relationship.  For him, he just wants to move on to find someone more compatible.

When I ask your Angels what do they have to say to you specifically, loud and clear they holler to move on.  Stop resisting this breakup.  Take your hopes and dreams and carry them with you into another more suitable relationship for you, one where you are respected and appreciated.

Dear Angels,
"I am in love with a man who truly loves me. Please let me know what kind of man is he?  Will he divorce his wife and marry me?  Will that be accepted in my house and in relatives' circle?  Will I ge peace of mind with this relationship?  What kind of lady is his wife?  Will he be supportive?  Will she divorce him without any problem?"  Jonnalagadda, India

Dear Jonnalagadda,
My lovely lady, this is a taste of a reading, not the whole thing.  I will be happy to answer these things for you with a detailed private reading.  As we stand, I will answer the first question and touch on the second.

Your sweetheart is what appears to be the perfect man.  He's got it all.  He sees you as an angel in his life, the temptress.  On the other hand, he has an accomplished and independent wife already, who seems to know how to take care of herself.  It is probable that she senses intuitively that he is no longer committed to her emotionally.

When I ask if he will divorce her, what I see is that he is very much a man of status and stature.  He has a hard won place in the world that he values.  If he divorces his wife, he will lose his money and in his mind, some of his status. 

I would like to tell you that he is throwing his life to the wind for you, but I don't see that. He is seeing himself splitting off from their friends and seeing you as holding on tightly to him, which stresses him. Unfortunately for you, his position in the world is what is most important to him, except when he is in bed with you.