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Dear Angels,
"My husband has not worked (on purpose) in over four months and lives off me  (he says he does not like this.)  Can you please tell me if I should end my marriage and move on with my life?"  Lydia, Hot Springs, Arkansas

Dear Lydia,
It looks as if you are feeling as if your husband is holding you back in some way. His unwillingness to work for the last four months is a huge issue for you.  He doesn't seem to be open to even looking for another job. The Angels are showing me that he is having a fine time and in no rush to return to the workplace. 

You seem to have everything you need and are more than comfortable. Can it be that your fear of changing your lifestyle from one of abundance to one of acceptance of what is, is more than you choose to face?  Look to see if your desire to control him, your desire to "crack the whip," so to speak, to get him back to work, is something he doesn't wish to be part of today?

Your Angels want to know if you are doing your best to pick up the financial slack? Look to see if you are expecting him to support your lifestyle, but are not so excited about creating it on your own.
I am noticing a little defiance on both sides.  He seems defiant in his unwillingness to have you be the boss; you seem defiant in your unwillingness to fill in for him while he relaxes.

Your husband seems to be enjoying playing for awhile. If that means you are the support, then maybe you might start looking, either for job for yourself, or a release from your marriage to find another man who is happy to support you financially and be the old-fashioned "man of the house." 
 


Comments

Lydia

Thu, 28 Jan 2010 20:30:48

I absolutely could relate to all the angels spoke through you. I think you are right about a little defiance on both sides. I had to cry at the honesty you put forth and the accuracy from which you picked up on what I had not told you in my question. I feel like the angels gave me the answer I already knew but was "afraid" to accept.

So thank you so much and may you be so blessed for the gift you give to others. I wish you abundance in all areas of your life. Thank you so much again.

 



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