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Dear Angels,
"I'm having love problems and I've gotten frustrated with the boys in my life...it's almost like I'm never going to find someone, or maybe I should try pursuing this guy, Steve.  Will I find someone to love soon?" Laura, Hartford, CT

Dear Laura,
Let's deal with "the boys" in your life first.  Take a look at yourself and notice if you try to form a bond of friendship before you think of moving ahead sexually.  It can be that you are putting out the "wrong" signals to the guys you are dating.  If you acting TV sexual, when you are thinking "Let's just have fun and get to know each other," you will be giving out the wrong signal. Or if you are thinking that sex without a committed friendship is what is required of you and then feeling zapped and ill-respected, that won't work either.

As for pursuing Steve, he appears to be a spiritually balanced human being. You actually seem to fit together well.  If you can pursue, as you said, without being pushy, and rather just being open to talking together so you get to know each other, he seems like a good guy. The "trick" is always to be open, but not so open that you appear loose.  The attitude of, "this seems like a nice guy -let's have coffee," works great.
 


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