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Dear Angels,
"I have recently moved back in with Jef, my ex-husband and my 13 year old daughter.  This is to help him out. (He lost his job.)  I feel like it will only be temporary, but I'm also feeling extremely scared that it might not be and I might go backward in my growth.  I'm wondering, 'What's up??? What's next for this ever-evolving croneish(sic) woman?'"  Linda, Dana Point, CA

Dear Linda,
You seem to be a loving and deeply caring woman with an ex who can be compassionate as well, but ineffectual.  Jef presents a great attitude to others but doesn't see eye to eye with you. I'm sure knew that, but I have to understand the cast of characters.  Your young daughter is smart but carries that "alone and separated" feeling that divorced kids have to live through. 

What the Angels are showing me is that when you were together, you did everything you could to bring balance to your relationship and your family life, but it didn't work. Now you are afraid you will get caught again.  You remember how hard you tried to keep everything together.  What you are afraid of is living together will bring out the worst in you both, and you will lose your balance in a big way.

Right now, you are working one day at a time in a relationship and situation where you know you cannot win. Eventually your ex will go back to his old unreasonable behavior, and maybe alcoholism. Can it be that he always had self-confidence problems and you fed into these?

 In either case, this seems a no-win for you.  You remember only too well how hard you tried to make everything right and gradually lost your balance by trying to save your world. Your Angels are saying it didn't work then. It won't work now. You will know when it is time to move on;  then do it before you are locked into an emotional pitfall.