Dear Angels, "Quick question for the angels. Should I move into this apartment on 28th and C Street?" Cat, San Diego, CA
Hi Cat, This question cuts to the chase so I will too. It looks like if you decide to move here, you will feel like you've gone from bad to worse. If money is your main concern, this is a good choice. However, i may be that you have nosey neighbors, or that you don't feel safe in some way. I don't think it's the apartment so much as where it is.
After six months will you adjust and be happy you've moved into this place? All I see is that it satisfies your frugal self. You are someone who likes to have control over her money and this is within your means. But there isn't one thing here that says, "Oh boy! Life is going to be great in my new apartment!" Your Angels are non-committal because the choice is yours. I just don't see any encouragement.
Dear Angels, "I feel I have too much power inside of me. What should I focus on right now?" Marc, Beirut, Lebanon
Dear Marc, You appear to be just ending what you thought was a terrific relationship and now you're wondering what to do to create a better life for yourself as well as for others. Your Angels are showing me that you are powerful in a spiritual, non-traditional way. You have an inner wisdom that wants to emerge. You seem to be sensing that a standard life, of remaining within a small circle, is less than what you can accomplish.
Your challenge is to let go, to ask for guidance and stop to listen. Then take action. It is time to trust your inner voice to move you along on your path. To make use of your spiritual power, as with all accomplishments, you have to take calculated risks. The knowledge of how to navigate this new territory comes from trusting that something better is coming as you believe in yourself and others. It appears as if you have spent a long time hiding out, not really acknowledging, perhaps even for yourself, that you have something special to say, something to offer. You do. It is time now for you to step forward into the unknown, offering your true gift of connection with the Divinity.
Your Angels are saying you are able to stand back and watch, intuitively seeing what can guide you and others to the joy we all want. Step out of your emotional closet and allow yourself to share your gifts. You have value. You have something to say. As long as you continually align yourself in the Light, i.e come from your heart and not your ego, you cannot fail.
Dear Angels "How do I recognize my twin flame in the physical. Is he with me now?" Adele, So. Africa
Dear Adele, It's a good thing you're asking your Angels, because I haven't a clue. Here's what they say. A twin flame in a relationship rarely occurs on the earth plane as yet. It can occur when you have cleared so much of your old ancestral beliefs that you are beginning to see clearly. It is living a life on your own where you are continually bringing yourself back to center. Where you forgive even before it takes hold and where you maintain your boundaries to encourage the best in you and others. It occurs when you know yourself so well that judgment is leaving your thought except where necessary for safety.
That being said, the guy you are with currently may feel terrific to you, but is probably not in the same place as you. To him your relationship seems to have been closer in the past and currently a little more than he can handle. He sees you as spiritually psychic. Your abilities may be too much for him to handle. My intention here is not to be discouraging, but just to share what I see. I have been wrong before. Let's hope that I am this time.
Dear Angels, "I met a guy about a year ago who gave me the most amazing, wonderful, nourishing experience of being in a relationship with him. Even in his worst moments, he was kind, connective, communicated well and treated me the best I've ever been treated. I loved exploring life with him and I have never loved myself so much as when I was with him.
The one extremely limiting factor is he is VERY young. He needed to return to college and become an adult. I am past that stage in my life. He is the only person, ever, that no matter how hard I try to let him go, I can't. We are both so connected to each other!
So, I'm asking for guidance...in whatever direction that I need to go. I know enough to know that as long as I am connected to him, it can prevent an even more powerful experience from coming forward with someone more age appropriate." Elysa, Oakland, CA
Dear Elysa, Life is cruel sometimes. Mr. Fabulous appears but he's only a hop and a skip from the cradle. Your Angels are showing me that you are each others teacher. He is showing you that it is possible to find a man you are attracted to who is lovable, and loving, someone trustworthy, and someone whose head is slanted your way in your beliefs about life. He respects your wisdom while he is turned on to your body. He is open to give and receive. How could you not be attracted to this man? He sees you as beautiful, spiritually wise, and living life as he would choose for himself.
Your Angels are pointing out that he is really unavailable. He has some necessary stretching to do in maturing in life before you two catch up. That makes him safe to love. It's another version of selecting a guy who is unavailable because... (name your game.) Due to the age difference, you will always be at different stages of your life. Imagine being 50 when he is 35. Maybe this is not so appealing.
You have come into each others lives to show you both that this male-female thing can actually work. It is possible to be respected and loved. It is possible to share your heart and not have the other person trample on it. Be friends and lovers all you like. Just know that as he steps into the adult world after the protective shelter of college, he will have many new options to consider, from women to work.
If you are able, it is advisable to be friends, and learn from this experience. Now you know what having a terrific relationship looks like. If you need to go back and relive some of your great times together, then give yourself permission to reconnect. Some times, we need more time to process what works and what doesn't to be able to let go.
When you are ready and feel more certain of your choice, ask for and receive an age-appropriate guy who has these qualities that make this one so appealing.
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Dear Angels, "I love Balachandar since 7 years, but recently he doesn't like me at all. He doesn't want me in his life...I want God to help me, in getting Balachandar back to me and get me married to him. This is my will and God please fulfill this wish of mine!!! Will God do this for me?" Jayalakshmi, Chennal, India
Hi Jayalakashmi, It is understandable that you are so sad if you've been in love for seven years. Your Angels are showing me that you are refusing to let go of Balachandar and let him live his life. Your constant pulling him toward you makes him want to do the opposite. Have you heard of the expression, "What you resist, persists?" He sees you two as having a difficult relationship, with you being impatient and trying to control things, including him.
Continuing to insist that Balachandar is the husband for you when he continues to pull back, will get you nowhere. If you really love him, then let go. Allow him to move forward without you in his life. Maybe he will miss you and return. And if he doesn't make that choice? Would you want to be married to someone who didn't want to be around you?
Your Angels clearly say that this is not the job of God. This is the job of Jayalakshml. What you can do is move on with your life. It is your lesson to surrender to the will of the Divine. Surrender is not controlling. It is giving up personal control to activate the energy of Source. If not and you insist on having your way, it will not lead to a happy outcome.
Dear Angels, "What is it that I have to do now? What is this sense of urgency? How do I find the answers? Are you talking to me...? I know, it seems like more than one question, but, in fact, it is just one -same old question.... What is it?" Ramila, Melbourne, AU
Dear Ramila, Welcome to the conundrum of modern life. You are not starving. You have a roof over your head. In fact all is really fine, but... Your Angels are showing me you standing back and watching the world drive on by. Okay. Except you feel like the bottom has fallen out of your world, and no matter how you reconfigure your present situation, you lose. It is one thing to observe life and another to live it.
It is time for you to take action. Time for you to stand up and do what you have prepared for. "If I knew what to do, I'd do it," you say. Your Angels are insistent that you know, but you refuse to let yourself see. If you see, then you have to take action. Then what if you are worse off? What if you are sorry? Are you sorry now? You're driving yourself nuts. Give yourself the opportunity to mess up. Making mistakes is the way we learn. Nothing was ever accomplished without trial and error.
Look back at your childhood and notice if you were expected to be perfect. It has been time for you to move on for awhile and you have chosen not to. Ask, be still, and listen. But first, anchor into the earth. When our heads are running like a rushing stream in the early spring, we can't get a clear picture. We have to manage our energy by coming into our bodies and then asking and more importantly, listening.
In our heads we all holler, "Help me! Then we keep running. How can we be shown a different way when our head doesn't stop dashing ahead? Anxiety throws up a movable smoke screen that blocks clear thought and stifles our heart's desire.
"What is it?," is simply following your passion, moving ahead slowly, one step ahead of the other. It's listening to your heart and pursuing your love, what makes you smile, what comes naturally to you. It is your gift. Open your heart and your mind to knowing that if you can stop resisting, what you want is in front of your face. You just need to be quiet , deliberately releasing your anxiety, to to allow your gifts to come forward.
And one more. Be open to change. Be open to adventure. Be open to taking a chance while expecting the best. Pursue what makes you smile, even if you think you can't do it. You can. You are ready. Step into the real Ramila's red spangled shoes.
Dear Angels, "My husband's going to Greece for 3 weeks on business and I get to visit for the last two weeks. For some reason, I think this will be an opportunity for us to connect to the next chapter in our life. Can you tell me what you see for us for this trip?" Sharlene, Davidson, N.C.
Dear Sharlene, Your Angels are showing me that this trip will lift your spirits to give you the impetus to begin something you've been thinking about but were unable to get started. For your husband, Keith, he looks like he will be with like-minded people who appreciate him. He's a social guy and will enjoy the attention. He will definitely be in his element. In this place, he is a natural leader and will be the engine behind the two of you.
You will open to ideas that you had trouble focusing on in the past. This trip can clear your mind if you allow it. It appears that you doubt your abilities and perhaps doubt that you are prepared adequately for this new step that seems to be on the horizon. The Angels are saying that if you couldn't accomplish your imagined future, the picture would not have come into your head.
Old thought patterns have been holding you back. If you allow it, this trip can give you the gentle boost to listen to your guidance and get moving. You are ready to leave behind what doesn't work for what does. It is a big stretch for you, but as soon as you are able to release your old self-defeating thoughts, you will find that you are more than prepared. You are done grieving for what you think are your inabilities or inadequacies.
It is time to celebrate the creation of a new life together, and for you particularly, a time to share your feminine power based on your love and compassion. You are ready. It is time for the training wheels to come off and begin tottering on your own. You are much more powerful than you imagine.
ear Angels, "Most of the time I can feel my connection to Spirit, but sometimes it's very weak. I wonder if that means I won't be able to really get clear and precise information. What can you tell me?" Marianne, Port Townsend, WA
Dear Marianne, Remember that ad, "Nobody tries harder?" That's what is coming up for you. When I ask who you are, your Angels show me that you are always working on yourself. Your intention is to help others while you help yourself. Something is getting in the way, however, that prevents you from accessing your intuitive gifts.
In your desire to share your multiple gifts that will help others, is it possible that you are gauging your success on the money coming in from your sharing? Or that you think you should be doing better than you judge yourself? There seems to be a sadness, maybe even a low grade depression that prevents you from stepping into your own shoes. Your Angels are clearly and loudly saying not to resist your old feelings that are rising to the surface. The experiencing of old feelings left over from being shot down in some way as an insecure kid, have to surface and be felt in order to release.
Your intense determination to surmount this issue has created another. Your wiseacre Angels are saying, "Just let go." Perhaps in the past you had a busier, more structured life than you have today. That's a blessing and a challenge. Without the "have-to's," there is more time for introspection.
And one more thing... I'm hearing you receive clear and precise information from your guides. However, if you second guess yourself, or if you lose your ground, i.e., you are in your head worrying about one thing or another, you will feel disconnected to the Source energy. It's part of being human. Take it as a warning that you have unplugged from the earth force and wait until you reconnect intentionally and feel Mother Earth's magnetic pull.
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Dear Angels, "I have lost my way. I don't have the strength as I did before. Will I go home soon?" Evelyn, Hickory Creek, TX
Dear Evelyn, Your Angels are showing me you have lost your will to live. Your fire has gone out. It looks as if you have been in a relationship that you thought was solid, created through a cohesiveness where you could trust each other. Now you're feeling as if there is no hope. You are not moving down the path of Disney bliss together, but until now you have been holding on tightly to this all or nothing picture. The good news is you are beginning to let go.
You appear to be moving into a healthier attitude. You've had trouble standing up for yourself. As a defense to support your weak ego, you have blocked seeing your partner's side differently. Your challenge is to understand that each of us sees the world differently. The winning attitude that will carry you through this is to work together to create what you both want.
It is up to you to change your self-protective thoughts that don't allow you to compromise without giving up your soul. Can this happen? You might need the support of a therapist to walk you down this path.
Paragraph. Dear Angels, "I've noticed that a lot of spiritual people have their heart, throat, 3rd eye, and crown chakras open, but they/I seem to have trouble keeping the bottom three(base, sexual, solar plexus) open. Any thoughts?" Adrienne, Salem, OR
Hi Adrienne, The top four chakras, or energy centers in the body, of the heart, throat, 3rd eye and crown, contain the energy of the opening of the heart. This energy includes your spiritual awareness.
The bottom three chakras of the base, sexual and solar plexus contain the energy of the physical. People who consider themselves spiritual, often have the misguided perception that the physical energy can be overlooked; that the physical is of less value than the spiritual; and that the physical is of a lower vibration than the spiritual and therefore should be overcome.
The Angels are amused. You have chosen to explore the pleasures and rigors of a physical life for the express purpose of merging the unconditional Love that comes through the spiritual into the weighty judgment of the ego in the physical. What would motivate you in your game of life if everything was perfect? Your physical being would be bored. Challenge is a major part of the physical life.
Those spiritual beings who are thinking they can ignore the physical, or pray away the physical, will learn that "we are one" means not just with each other, but with all parts of us. It is the acceptance of our anger, fear and pain that allows it to release, to clear, and to move on.
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