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Dear Angels,
"How is it possible for someone to influence your guides and angels?"  Philip, Detroit, MI

Dear Philip
Your Angels are clear.  No human can influence your personal Angels and guides. It is you who are giving your power away to another.

Your Angels are showing me that you have deliberately aligned yourself with the Light and live your life in the joy of creation.  However, you have attracted a woman in your life who tends to be narrow-minded, and me-centered.  She loves to manipulate you as a way to get what she wants.  The Angels are firm in reminding you that she cannot control you unless you allow her to. She or anyone else has no control over your spiritual life. None, although she would like you to think she is that powerful. She is not.

Often those of us who live in our heart are thought to be weak. You can expect that thought to change through the law of the hundredth monkey. Your "friend" or ex-mate probably, thinks of you that way and knows when to turn the screws.

Philip ,when I ask what is for your Highest Good to do in this situation, I hear that you already do it. You live in love.  You live knowing we are all One.  Please remember that this woman's consciousness is not where yours is.  She sees a different world. Your Angels hold you close with the praise of, "Your time is coming!" 

Love,
Suzy & your Angels
 
 
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Dear Angels,
"Will my business be successful? Will I have overseas travel?"  Elmarie, Ft. Worth,TX

Dear Elmarie,
It looks like you work overtime to build your business. You've got the verve and the smarts to create this, but it's not happening.  It's also clear that you do your best to listen and follow your guidance.

Your challenge can be that you intend to create a full house of joy on every level. Is it possible that you are not feeling the support you need, the nurturing that we women seem to require to move forward in our lives? It looks as if what or whom you used to think of as support, is no longer. If there was someone standing with you, they have lost interest and on your own, you are feeling unsure of yourself and may let go of the business.

In spite of how this sounds, this will be a liberating experience. You will be able to move forward in your life in a way that was blocked for you before.

Love,
Suzy & your Angels
 
 
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Dear Angels,
"I am dating a guy, Jason, and we've crossed the bridge of staying at each others apartment.  Unfortunately, I am now in a situation where I need a place to stay for a few nights. If I ask to stay with him, will it scare him away?  How will he feel about it?"  Sandy, Ventura, CA

Hi Sandy,
It appears as if you are pretty psychic yourself but are doubting your own ability right now, probably because you're too close to this situation.  You are definitely ready to move on with this relationship, maybe move on period.

When I ask to see how Jason sees you, it looks as if in the beginning he was afraid to let you know what he was really feeling, afraid to commit himself to you because he needed to feel safe and perhaps know you better. He sees you as having set yourself up in a situation that not only didn't work out but now you are getting a rough deal. 

When I ask about how Jason feels about you, I would have to say a little possessive right now.  He sees you in a bit of a mess that he thinks you should have let go of long ago. Nothing showed up about love, only sex. In our society, sex often comes before love. We might have it backwards.

To answer your question, if you ask to stay one night with him, he will be fine and probably delighted, but watch for signs of possessiveness. He will definitely feel like you have jacked your relationship up a notch. Or three.  If you ask to stay with him for a week, you will complete upend him. He will lose his balance and your relationship may falter.

Too much too soon? 

Love,  Suzy & your Angels
 
 


Dear Angels,
"I am dating a guy, Jason, and we've crossed the bridge of staying at each others apartment.  Unfortunately, I am now in a situation where I need a place to stay for a few nights. If I ask to stay with him, will it scare him away?  How will he feel about it?"  Sandy, Ventura, CA

Hi Sandy,
It appears as if you are pretty psychic yourself but are doubting your own ability right now, probably because you're too close to this situation.  You are definitely ready to move on with this relationship, maybe move on period.

When I ask to see how Jason sees you, it looks as if in the beginning he was afraid to let you know what he was really feeling, afraid to commit himself to you because he needed to feel safe and perhaps know you better. He sees you as having set yourself up in a situation that not only didn't work out but now you are getting a rough deal. 

When I ask about how Jason feels about you, I would have to say a little possessive right now.  He sees you in a bit of a mess that he thinks you should have let go of long ago. Nothing showed up about love, only sex. In our society, sex often comes before love. We might have it backwards.

To answer your question, if you ask to stay one night with him, he will be fine and probably delighted, but watch for signs of possessiveness. He will definitely feel like you have jacked your relationship up a notch. Or three.  If you ask to stay with him for a week, you will completely upend him. He will lose his balance and your relationship may falter.

Too much too soon? 

Love,  Suzy & your Angels
 
 
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Dear Angels,

"I seem to get ill with one thing after another just lately, mostly coughs, colds and that sort of thing
and I don't seem to have the energy and well being that I used to have.  Do you know what it is that
is doing this to me?  I so want to get on with my life, but I don't seem to be able to.  I am constantly tired.  I have been to my G.P. and had all the blood tests but nothing (thank goodness) is wrong there.  I hope this makes sense - Thanks for your time."  Cathy, San Francisco, CA

Dear Cathy,
Would you believe you are the third person to mention this today? Your Angels show me that you are normally a centered, two-feet-on-the-ground kind of woman who is getting ready to move into a new cycle of her life.   You've been standing back probably because you are feeling discouraged with your lack of vitality. 

When I ask how how your health is, I hear that you are basically fine. Does that mean you made this exhaustion up? Obviously not.  Perhaps your lesson is to be in your heart, to allow yourself to feel even what you've denied.  Can it be that your normal way of being entails a persistent push to succeed?

Your Angels are suggesting you deliberately release your resistance to feeling what makes you question your life. We are all being given the opportunity to look at our lives differently.  The shift in consciousness so often spoken of,  the Angels say, is about allowing ourselves to feel what we have buried within. To feel our old fears, to experience ourselves differently is one way to become less judgmental of others as well as to show us a new path into living in love.

You will create what you choose, even if you're off to a rocky start.  Be patient with your body and think of this as your vacation.  Notice how your head changes when you do that.  You will return to your old take-charge kind of self. Now is the time to be still and notice what you are feeling, not doing.

With love,
Suzy & Your Angels



 
 
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Dear Angels,
"Now that I have stopped drinking, I am more aware of my true self and my potential.  There is a peace that has come over me.  When I was in the height of my alcohol addiction, I felt out of control and manic.  It was as if a mischievous spirit took over my body and mind.

Since being sober now for over three months, I find myself searching for answers about the direction in life I should take that will empower me.  Somewhere deep down inside, I feel a desire to write a book.  So my question to you today, dear Angels:  Is my soul-searching path in sobriety to be focused on writing an inspiring children's book?"  Debbie, Maui, Hawaii

Dear Debbie,
In your willingness and ability to move into sobriety, a delightful exuberance has filled your soul.  It's
as if a part of you can hardly wait to get on with life. Of course you are still in the balancing stage, but you are doing it.  Your Angels are rejoicing with you and want you to remember that they are part of your spiritual support team.

Your previously unrealized gifts are waiting to emerge as you begin to click together the heels of your sparkling red shoes with your own power in The Power.  Your Angels share that you already have an acceptance of the foundation of AA and the initially unspoken gift of the program.  You are no longer resisting, which brings cheers all around.

As for your question, your idea of writing a children's book is such a whopping "Yes!", that I can only laugh.  Hold your dream and start writing when the muse within speaks.  You have the awareness and the ability to look beyond what others see. You also have a history of mistreatment and pain and the willingness to share just enough of your personal misfortune, to hold the candle for another.

Your expression of the child within not only will heal you, but will help save others when they are too young to have the physical power to save themselves.  You will shine as an expression of hope.

Love,
Suzy & Your Angels
 
 
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Dear Angels,
"I am exercising, eating more fruits and veggies and doing positive thoughts but I still have pain from arthritis and not losing weight. Any help on that as to why?  Thanks."  Jocelyn, Ft. Wayne, Ind.

Dear Jocelyn,
This is a little out of my realm, but I'll give it a try.  Your Angels tell me that you are a spiritual woman  who is not feeling very accomplished right now. You want to be independent. You want to feel confident. You have the intelligence and the ability to be very successful in the world, but your self-beliefs are holding you back. Those beliefs are things you were taught, and falsely so,  about yourself as a child.

In the spiritual world, arthritis appears to happen when we are holding ourselves too rigidly. It comes from when we hold ourselves back, often unconsciously.  We hang on so tightly to what we have and want in the physical world, that we bind ourselves into a pattern of fear of having less money, less love and less attention.

We end up creating exactly what we don't want. While we are holding on from fear, we are unable to love and trust ourselves to create what we really want, in this case less body weight, less arthritic pain and more loving. Your Angels are saying it is time for you to release your old picture of extra weight and physical discomfort equals an unhappy or non-existent relationship.

You are at the end of this cycle. It is time to welcome change for yourself.  It is time to deliberately let go of your old way of seeing yourself. Perhaps not only do you need to "fake it 'til you make it" by trying on new self-beliefs  but also a weight management group to help you shed your pounds which will let up on the arthritis as well as make you feel more attractive.

love,
Suzy & your Angels
 
 
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Dear Angels,
"I am a 27 year old woman and I still have no clear direction to where my life is leading.  I have also become interested in a guy who is in a relationship and now I don't know what to do."  Nicola, UK

Dear Nicola,
You're asked two different-appearing, but connected, questions. Your Angels are showing me that you are a social person.  You like to be in the center of things. At the same time, you are a little unsure of yourself.  Your personal power could use a boost.

You're probably pretty good at helping others move through their restrictive fears, breaking out of dis-empowering relationships, or just walking through their own issues.  It's a funny thing how we teach what we need to learn.  You'd be a good recovery counselor if you'd decided you were interested.

As for "the guy," you didn't share his first name, so I am not sure I am connecting with the correct person.  Here's what appears to be.  Mr. Nameless seems to be a little unsure of himself right now. He's feeling like he's gotten himself into a tricky situation.  When I asked how he sees you, he thinks you're a bright, but perhaps a little sharp, young woman who likes to be the boss. He also sees you as having trouble letting go of your past.

Would he like to move forward in your relationship? It's a pretty clear it is time for you to let go of him and move on.

Love,
Suzy & your Angels 
 
 
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Dear Angels,
"I feel as if I haven't been able to move forward in the direction of my dreams for many, many years.   It is as if my hands are tied behind my back!  I am generally a positive, optimistic and grateful person...What is possibly holding me and my little family back from greater prosperity?  I want to make a big leap forward, please advise...and thanks so much in advance!"  Jayne, Bonita, CA

Dear Jayne,
You already know that nothing is as it seems.  Your emotional unrest is holding you back. You are afraid to take action.  The  relationship you thought was yours, is not. You are doing your best to let go and move on, but it's a big blow. Your husband appears to be somewhat of a bully with a big ego. Ethics are not in his value system. The less successful he feels financially, the more intense his control. 

The challenge is for you to know that what he says and does is not a reflection of you.  It is his choice, his path in this life.  He has done his best to squelch your fire, but your heart is intact. The prosperity that you want has to come from within you first. You are love-poor except in your own heart.  The Universe will send you the prosperity you desire as you learn to support yourself emotionally.

Love, Suzy & your Angels
 
 
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Dear Angels,
"I really like a guy named Richard but I fear he is taking advantage of me...is this true or does he really like me?  Is it best to let go or would I be running away from my fear?  Bad things seem to happen when he gets close to me...am I being paranoid?"  Samantha, UK

Hi Samantha,
Is your friend Richard married?  It looks as if he is involved in, or maybe will be involved in litigation
with a nice-enough woman.  This litigation will probably not go well for him.  Richard sees you as a determined and strong woman who will not stick around unless you get what you are looking for.

I can see why you are asking these questions.  It's a confusing reading for me.  Can it be that Richard is a spiritual guy who is somewhat of a loner?  He creates stressful situations for himself because he's afraid of life. He's afraid of a true partnership.  He's been feeling isolated because he doesn't know what he wants.  He lives not so much in his body, but in an unreal world of fantasy.

"Would you be better off with Richard or without?"  The Angels are showing me that your relationship with him hurts. You are not the only one in his life. You have done everything you can, but it's not working for you. It is robbing you of your self-confidence.  He is stubborn and often controlling and a continued relationship will most likely lead to more of the same.

Your challenge is to move on, in spite of the fact that there are many wonderful things that you share.