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Dear Angels,
"I  have been in a lovely relationship with Jessica since the beginning of this year.  She wants a commitment from me now to be her life partner or move on.  I need circumstances to change first and my head is fighting with my heart. What do my angels say?"  Tina, Glendale, CA

Dear Tina,
Your heart is in the right place. Your head is talking from its old training, of you must be the successful provider. Perhaps you think you must be at a certain financial level to allow the two of you to be together as a committed couple.  Your Angels want to say that life continues whether you are successfully employed or not.  After all, this relationship has flourished for 6-7 months already when things were not any better than they are now. 

Jessica is clear that she wants to continue to be together, but only if you are willing to commit to her alone.  The question for you is, do you want to commit or not? Do you value her love and connection enough to take the risk?  There is nothing preventing the two of you from continuing your spiritually and physically beautiful connection.

The Angels are clear. If you can release your old idea of you must provide at the level you were trained to anticipate, and allow yourself to live from your heart, the timing is perfect. 

The choice is more simple than you imagine. Do you want joy and love or do you want to live by your parents' rules that you have internalized?

 
 
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Dear Angels,
"I feel completely disgusted and appalled by the corruption in our corporations and officials and what is accepted as "ok" in everyday life.  I know a guy who is filing for disability because he doesn't want to go back to work. He will get 60% of his salary for staying home! Do I have to dump my old associates and family for goodness sake? 

"How do I get back in the system and take a job that is not in alignment with my beliefs?"  Gloria, Columbus, OH

Dear Gloria,
Your Angels are showing me you feel like you are howling at the moon!  You are so outraged that people can cheat and still command a good living. I can understand your sense of injustice. 

It sounds as if you want a heart-centered job.  One that jives with your belief system.
What might be missing is the positive change that can happen when you let go of what others are doing.  It's not that you are not right to be upset, but rather where does it get you? Unless you work for the same company and want to be the whistle blower, you have no power.  There is nothing positive that can come from you being angry.

Your narrowness of focus might be blocking a great job coming to you. Notice if you feel like things must be set up in a certain way. When I ask if you will find a job to your satisfaction soon, instead I see that you feel like you would be selling your soul to do most of the work that has been offered or that you have applied for. It looks like you need money.

Your Angels are saying, loud and clear, "It's not so much what you do, it's how you do it." Sometimes we have to take a job that our ego says is below what we deserve.  If that occurs, then allow yourself to work as if it is the most wonderful job in the world, with love, and a smile on your face.  People will notice and something else will come your way.
 
 
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Dear Angels,
"I would like to know what is in the future for me and the man, Greg, that I am seeing."  Julie, Houston, TX

Dear Julie,
The Angels and I believe that as you choose, you create.  Therefore, I do not predict the future.  However, you can influence your future by your actions, thoughts and behavior.  I will share with you what comes up for today, but it is important to know it is not written in stone.  You have control in spite of what you think.Does that mean you can change someone else? No. It is up to them to choose for themselves what they want.

Julie, I see that you love to be in a close relationship. You enjoy giving to others and hope there will be a mutual exchange of energy. With your friend, Greg,  you are realizing this is not the two-way street you had hoped. What you are feeling is that Greg does not approach life as you do. You have differing values, perhaps ethics. You do your best to work around these differences, but they reflect a deeper division.

Greg seems to feel like you are watching him and that you are the ones with the rules. You are feeling like you are doing the emotional work for you both.

When I ask what does he want from this relationship, I see that he is playful and loving and just wants to be in a "kid."  Marriage and commitment bring up almost terror for him because of watching so many, perhaps his own parents, fail.
 
 
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Dear Angels,
"Should I move to Orange Country so the kids and I could live near their Dad or should I stay where I'm at.  My lease is up August 1st." 
Jane, San Diego, CA

Dear Jane,
I am seeing you in a strait jacket.  It's a picture of your sense of lack control of living close to your ex-husband.  Now the picture has changed to you in a life jacket  where the kids are doing okay but not so great on their own.  There are ropes, guy lines that attach your ex to you and you to him.  These guy lines are your kids, whom I think you both love very much. 

You seem to be gathering the pieces of yourself together.  You are a very spiritually guided woman who feels like she is moving forward, one baby step at a time.  What you are afraid of is that you will lose your balance in close proximity to your ex.  Whatever partnership you once has long since disappeared. 

The challenge is your kids seem to need their father.  They miss his companionship and love in their lives.  It can be that he is immature or just not a good partner for you;  but for them he seems essential.  It is a huge challenge for all of us divorced parents to embrace the other one in acceptance of their good qualities and keep our mouths shut when our ex-mates exhibit those qualities we dislike.  After all, your beloved kids can be thinking, if she hates him, then she can cut us off too!

Your Angels are showing me this is a test for you.  You are being given the opportunity to learn forgiveness.  Things are changing on the planet as you may have noticed.  We are learning the  acceptance of our God Self within.  That means not just us, but our antagonists.  The trick is to look at the God in all, and it ain't always so easy from the linear head!
 
 
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Dear Angels,
"I  am interested in tapping into my psychic abilities and was wondering if you could give me any tips on how to help develop my own."  Elan, Jamul, CA

Dear Elan,
Thanks for asking this.  I was not conscious of my psychic abilities when I was younger. I worked on learning to access them. The interesting part for me was I was guided all along but I wasn't sure at the time. 

Here's are a couple of things you can do.
  •  Pay attention to what you intuitively know.  Get yourself a clean spiral.  Date every entry.  Before you go to sleep or even during the day if you have a chance, make a one line note that you knew your girlfriend was going to call and she did. You knew what someone was going to say to you before they said it. You knew that the your friend was not telling you the truth.  Just record what you have already observed about your intuitive "hits."  It's a way of validating yourself. You'll see you are more in tune than you think.

  •  As you already know, your intuitive hits do not come through your five senses.  They are part of your sixth sense. These breakthroughs are literally that. Here's the real secret.  We all have a natural ability to access these hidden realms. They are hidden only from our linear, third dimensional thinking.  We are surrounded with so much information that we consider super natural, that if we saw it all, we might be considered completely nuts or certainly think of ourselves that way. The trick is to accept that the information you want to know is already there.  You have been trained not to see it. Create the willingness to see beyond.

  •  The most challenging "trick" is to let go of what your mind tells you. Your brain is wired to pick up the five senses. You have to ask for guidance. Then clear your mind of what you think and become a tabla rasa.  By that I mean you must let go of what you think the answer is.  You have to clear the slate so the true answer can appear. 
 
  •  Buy yourself a good book with pictures on tarot and a Rider Waite pack of cards.
Handle them. Play with them. Ask easy questions about yourself, your family, your friends. Gradually, you will learn because you want to, and because your guides will understand your intention and want to help you.   If you haven't played with a pendulum, you might give that a try as well. Many prefer it to just asking without anything physical to support the answer. When it moves clockwise, it is a yes;  counterclockwise is a no.  You can just ask, "Show me a yes. Show me a no.  Show me a maybe." You can check online for how to hold it properly so it works for you.
 
 
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Dear Angels,
"I am waiting on a job...I am desperately hoping to know if I will get it.  They have to run my background check, but I was once fired of a company so I am unsure what they would say if they contact them.  I should be starting August 16th and they have given me an offer that is contingent to the background check."  Lorena, Los Angeles, CA

Dear Lorena,
I am sorry to say that I don't see you being offered this job. It does have something to do with the background check. I think they like you, but they are concerned that your behavior perhaps was difficult in the old job.  The new company does not see you as a good fit for their company.  Perhaps you had an emotional outburst?  Or was it just that something happened that made you angry?  In either case, there are so many applicants for each job, it appears they will not select you.
 
 
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Dear Angels,
"Suzy I really need your help. I feel so lost. Are Stephen and me meant to be?  Am I pregnant?  I feel so confused and distressed and alone. Everything seems perfect but I don't know." Katie, UK

Dear Katie,
First things first. I do Not see you pregnant. Obviously there was a possibility or you would not have asked.  Please be more careful so you don't have to go through this again.

As for you and Stephen, your big challenge is you. Most likely you know that the energy is changing on the planet. We are all learning that what we think we create. Your constant worry is creating problems where there are none.  Your Stephen used to love you and have fun with you. It's still there for him. What he is trying to deal with is your constant angst.

In your desire to control life, which by the way cannot be controlled except by letting go of control, you are spiraling the relationship downward. This is not him. This is you.  Learn to do something to soothe your anxiety.  Physical activity often helps. Yoga. Deep breathing.

Stephen wants to continue your relationship and seems to care for you, but your proclivity to imagining disaster, is not easy to take.  If you can temper your anxiety and expect the best, the relationship can more forward. He would like it to continue. If you allow yourself to worry non-stop, he will eventually move on. 
 
 
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Dear Angels,
"Is Joey miserable without me in his life?"  Janicette, Miami, FL

Dear Janicette,
This is interesting.  You both seem to be better off without each other.  You are a level-headed woman who knows how to take care of herself. You see him as both wonderful and impossible.  You understand that the two of you have issues that you kept bumping up against, not the least of which is you wanted to be married and he did not. You just seem to be pulling yourself together after accepting the finality of you leaving.  Your Angels are cheering!

Joey sees you as having gone over the top when he didn't want to commit, even though he used to see you as a beautiful and compassionate woman.  Emotionally, you were too much for him. He prides himself on his non-conformity so refuses to compromise.  Not an easy package, especially for someone who prides herself on her compassionate nature.

Is he doing okay without you?  He is not the kind of man to sit around and mope forever.  His ego gets in the way of introspection.  He's throwing himself into business. He is determined to begin again.  He will also do okay because he knows how to talk the spiritual game as well as succeed in the world.
 
 
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Dear Angels,
"My co-workers and I have been having some stressful work problems related to an unfair supervisor.  Some of the upper level hospital staff are supportive of me and are hoping to encourage her to seek employment elsewhere.

I enjoy my work and my co-workers. What is the outcome of this messy situation?  Will she leave?" Karina, Rochester, MN

Dear Karina,
I'm seeing that you are a hard worker.  You are self-disciplined and do not need someone else to tell you what to do.  It appears as if you are being micro-managed and you definitely do not like it nor need it.

From your supervisor's viewpoint, it is her job to be top of whatever is going on.  Her tendency, unfortunately for you, is to watch your every move. Obviously, you two do not get along. She knows this as well as you.  She is hoping you will decide to move on. If you have been bad-mouthing her, it is getting back to her, or else she just intuitively feels your dislike.  This is not helping your cause.
She is looking for any reason to get you transferred or released.

The answer is to begin to see that by holding a grudge against her, is to ask for the same. You have two choices.  One is you can continue to let your self-righteous anger eat away at you and the job that you like.  The other is to realize what you resists, persists.

By this your Angels mean that thoughts are real and create what happens. Do your best to understand that your supervisor is responsible for running a safe and tight department. Perhaps if you do your best to improve your work habits even more and stop sending daggers her way, she will let up on you. 

Will she be encouraged to leave?  Her challenge is that she knows her people skills are not working well for her and others. She realizes it but doesn't know what to do about it. Perhaps if she is shown that we all want to be with people who appreciate us, she will look elsewhere. 

As it stands, all you can do is manage your own feelings by discontinuing your negative thoughts and replacing them with an acceptance of why she is acting as she does. She is afraid of losing her job if everything is not perfect. Add to that the thought that if anything goes wrong, the fault is ultimately hers, and you will begin to understand why she acts as she does.
 
 
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Dear Angels,
"I am desperate!  I do not know how to heal myself.  I am in a divorce process and have a lot of resentment, grief, depression, sadness, but the worst thing of all is I am blaming and beating myself all the time!  I am suffering so much! I want to move on and I cannot."  Maria, Nicosia, Cyprus

Dear Maria,
Although you sound like you are at the end of your emotional rope, I see that you are determined to begin again. This is healthy behavior and I congratulate you on your attitude.

When we are going through our own emotional turmoil, it is difficult for us to see that our world is going through its own.  It is a time of upheaval, of old forms and old ways of being letting go as we embrace a new way of living.  You are primed for this. Your soon to be ex-husband is not.

When first you were married, I would guess that you saw him as the perfect man. Now he is not so nice. He is probably somewhat of a bully, demanding his own way, and removing himself emotionally so that you are shut out.  It's important for you to see this because often we women, think, "If I had only done something differently..."

Your soon to be ex wants to be free. He sees you as needing to control the relationship, when he is the one who wants to do this. He is used to being the decision maker, so this does not sit well with him.

Your Angels are showing me that your challenge is to look at this as an opportunity to begin again. You will h to select a new partner, once the legal mess is out of the way. You are a powerful woman who could benefit from some personal counseling to support you and lead you through this taxing time so that you do not attract this situation next time.