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Dear Angels,
"I let my girlfriend down and she left me.  I love her so much.  Will I get her back?  I was also very close with her two kids.  I really do feel she is the one for me, but right now, she has been very strong and not taken me back.  Any advice?"  Michael, UK

Dear Michael,
It looks like you would like nothing better than to blow off your behavior and go back to what you thought of as a fairly harmonious relationship.  Unfortunately, your girlfriend sees you as not doing your part. She believed in you and felt safe with you.  Now she's not so sure you can be trusted, maybe feeling like the closeness she thought she shared with you is over. She is afraid she will be hurt again.

In order to win her back, if she will even consider it, and she might, you will have to show her that you have changed.  You will have to pull yourself together into the person she thought you were when you met, and not the person who behaved badly.

Dear Angels,
"I have recently been in a relationship with Mike.   I feel that Mike and I have a deep connection, but our relationship has been difficult and he does not want to commit."  Kathi, Orlando, FL

Dear Kathi,
I see that you really want a committed relationship, where you and your honey are together in marriage.  But there is something else going on. You and Mike don't seem to get along that well.  Does Mike like to be with his friends, separate from you?  Maybe even spend his money with them instead of with you?

Your Angels are showing me that Mike is not interested in getting married.  In fact the whole idea stresses him out. He's afraid he will be watched, even monitored, and has no interest whatsoever. He also thinks the two of you don't do that well together now.

Notice if the relationship is already over but you are having trouble moving on.

Dear Angels,
"My husband an I have been trying for a baby for nearly two years. Can you tell me if we will conceive naturally soon?"  Louise, Zakinthos, Greece

Dear Louise,
I would love to be able to tell you that I see a baby right here, ready to pop down the birth canal in nine months, but I don't.  What I do see is that you want one more than anything and the lack of having your own baby is creating tremendous sadness, even depression, for you.  You seem to have a loving husband, who would like a baby as much as you.

What it looks like today, is that you can get pregnant, but it will not happen this year. Your Angels are saying to make sure that you don't allow this goal to create havoc in your marriage.  You have a loving husband.  Appreciate him.  Appreciate yourself. Find interests besides baby coddling that make you both smile and enjoy your time together.  When you can forget about making a baby and take time to enjoy each other, it will happen.

 If you keep "trying," not only will you ruin your sex life, but your marriage can falter and you can make the two of you miserable.  Instead, enjoy your time together. Take the baby picture out of your mind and just have fun together. Pretend that you are single and are so happy to be together, you don't think of anything else.

Dear Angels,
'Are things going to work out for me financially?"   Michelle, Crewe, UK

Dear Michelle,
This sounds like a straight-forward question, but in terms of our hearts and money, the answer often has a circuitous route.  What your Angels are showing me is that you were in a situation with a guy that felt just right, but gradually the "just right" downgraded into a "not so hot." 

Now you are wondering how you, who is used to thinking of yourself as a spiritual, intelligent, and prosperous young woman, are going to make it on your own. The  sweet smell of harmony seems to have fizzled.  You're still feeling a little ripped off emotionally and second-guessing your ability to be resourceful to create the money you need.

Once you figure out what you are willing to do, a new job is in the offing, but not just yet. Your natural vivaciousness will carry you through into a happier and more abundant period.

Dear Angels,
"Is there a job change in my future soon?  I am in a negative place."   Bobbi, Las Vegas, NV

Dear Bobbi,
Your Angels are indicating that you've been coasting in your current job for awhile, not making the kind of money you deserve. Things are in a deadlock for you right now, but hang on, because things will change for the better before too long. 

Do your best to think positively, remembering that "this too shall pass." Also, take a look at your personal attitude. We all influence what appears to be going on around us, when a change in our own way of looking at things, can influence a positive change for all concerned.

Dear Angels,
"How do I release the love and longing I feel for David so that I may move on with grace?"
Cindy, Santa Fe, NM

Dear Cindy,
You seem to be an accomplished woman with everything going for her. Unfortunately, it looks like you and David had some ongoing issues that you thought you had worked out.  From his viewpoint, he resisted your intuitive knowing about him and his life.  You have a way of looking into people that unnerved him.

Could it be possible that you saw into him too clearly? In other words, you knew him too well for his own comfort.  It appears that he felt he had to hide his thoughts and behavior from you because he felt too vulnerable.  Many carry the fear that if someone really knew who we were they wouldn't like us.

As for releasing your longing for him, this will come with time.  Creating other interests in your life, like hiking, sharing time with friends, whatever you enjoy, will help you move on.  And next time, notice if you have a tendency to hover.

Dear Angels,
"I would like to know if I will meet my romantic soul mate soon?  I recently fell in love with Will, who's the wrong person for me in some ways.  Yet, I am completely attached to him.  He awakened a strong desire in me to find my life partner/soul mate.  I am eager and ready to meet him soon.  If in fact it is not Will, I would love to know if my intuition is correct that he is near? 
Ada, Miami, FL

Dear Ada,
It looks like you are still very much wrapped up in Will. You're having trouble letting go of him, even though he appears to be not interested. Your heart is still with him. Should you be different from the rest of us women?  We seem to love the ones who aren't there for us!

Will has already moved on. He would have been more attracted to you if you understood yourself better. By that the Angels mean, he sees you as being afraid of trusting, of having what he thinks of as irrational fears, and perhaps outbursts based on what you imagine.

Is Mr. Wonderful around the corner?  Everything depends upon your willingness to let go of Will and be open to begin again.  There is someone here who will be good for you but again, you have to clear your heart and your field to let go of the past and anticipate a loving future. You might even look around you to see if there is someone you know already but perhaps have overlooked.

In terms of soul mates, they don't always look the way we think they should.  Does this mean he could be Will?  Possibly, but it doesn't appear so unless you are willing to change some things about you and he is willing to see you differently.  And what is a soul mate anyway?  Someone who mirrors our stuff, both good and bad. We may not want what we think we do.

Dear Angels,
"What am I meant to do career-wise?"  Laury, Baltimore, MD

Dear Laury,
This is not a short answer question, but I will do my best. You don't look  like you're having any fun with whatever you are doing now. Perhaps there is someone in your life bossing you around, or maybe it's the internalized you who wants to take control.

Your Angels are showing me a picture of a large classroom blackboard.  Whenever something is written on it, you refuse to look, learn or even try it. You seem to be at a place where your resistant to whatever comes up is preventing you from moving forward.  Look within to see if your anger of past and current treatment is holding you back.

Your Angels are saying it is time for you to let go of your old feelings of "I can't," and begin to expect good things, in spite of where you are today. Some times we have to let go of what we have, to walk into something so much better. Your blocked anger from not "getting yours"  is preventing you from being the terrific woman you have the capability of becoming.

What you are "meant to do" is dependent upon your willingness to accept that your behavior has created this situation.  Once you acknowledge for yourself that there may be some truth here, then you can choose to release some of your pain turned into anger, and pay attention to what you like to do. Notice what interests you and what you are willing to do to get where you really want to go.

Dear Angels,
"I recently had my first Reiki session and was told that this might be a good path for me to follow.  I'm just concerned that I won't be able to support my family financially.  Should I follow this path?"
Kim, Rice Lake, WI

Dear Kim,
The Angels don't tell you what to do, but they can give you a "heads up" or not.  What they want to say is that Reiki is a beautiful way  to make use of your gifts, to serve others, and to contribute to your family income.  The key word here is "contribute."  Support and contribute mean two very different things.  Can you live on a Reiki Master status?  Yes, but only if you are willing to practice constantly and stay open to your spiritual evolution, and know how to market yourself.

You may observe that many of us who have followed this path, do several things at once. It is not only that the spiritual world opens as we do, but also that Reiki works on some, and EFT (tapping) on others, and Matrix Energetics, or The Reconnection on others still. Notice if you are having trouble seeing  things differently because you like your lifestyle now and are hoping you won't have to deviate too far from your comfort zone.

A Reiki or any other practice is not quick fix. It is a slow building of one client talking with another. It also depends on your personal issues. How willing you are to share services? How much you are willing to  practice? How focused are you? How much you are willing to network and let people know what you do?  And your personal expectations of what you think you can and can't do. 

Your Angels indicate that if you want to study and practice Reiki as a way to give back to others, that's a great idea. If you are planning to use only your Reiki practice to actually support your family, you might think again.  It's not that you can't do it, it's just that there are many variables to cope with before you can become the adept healer that you hope to be.

Dear Angels,
"I am divorced for nearly 3 years after a difficult marriage of 21 years. I have found true love with Richard.  He is a colleague and lost his wife.  Will this relationship lead to a happy marriage?  We are fond of each other."  Clarise Springbok, So. Africa

Dear Clarise,
It appears as if you are leaving behind adverse memories and are now ready to move forward with an open heart into a new commitment. Richard is allowing himself to heal as well and is thinking of marrying again and how nice that would feel to be happily committed to another.

Although Richard enjoys your company, he sees you lacking in confidence in yourself and preferring to live your life through another.  He senses you would be dependent on him, both financially and emotionally, which gives him pause.

It is possible that your relationship can lead to a contented marriage.  However, what I see is if you two choose to marry, it will be a marriage of convenience.  Can it work?  Yes.