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Dear Angels,
"About two weeks ago I met a guy, Judd, who's a 24 year old African American. I am 11 years older and fair-skinned. We started dating after he broke up with his ex.  She left him for another man. We are both spiritual and attracted to each other. Now he's back on tour with his ex, who's a singer.  He's not calling and seems preoccupied in our texts. I though he was going to be my future husband. Are me and him going to be together?"  Marieta, Burbank, CA

Dear Marieta,
Some times the energy surrounding a question is uncertain. This time it is quite clear.  You have allowed yourself to believe what you want because you are very sweet and loving, and perhaps a little gullible.  Your Angels are clearly saying this romance will not work out in the way you anticipated.  William has already moved on.  He sees you as a delightful and perhaps delicious dream, but he cannot imagine the two of you beginning any kind of long term relationship together, no matter what he said at the time. 

If it helps, his relationship with his ex is not working well.  However, he is determined to keep going even though it is difficult. She provides an income and he loves the attention of being "on the road" in the entertainment business.

Dear Angels,
"I want to ask my angels to speak to me about my career path.  Am I on the right one?
Vicky, Richmond, Ontario

Dear Vicky,
What your Angels are showing me is that you make money, you do a good job, but it's not where your heart lives.  It doesn't make you happy. Ask yourself if ten years from now you want to be emerged in your current field in a similar job?

What I hear is that you can't get yourself to really commit to what you do because it's not who you are.  Can you do it? Yes, but it's not your passion.  You have ongoing issues, perhaps with others, and definitely within yourself, about your job, and your path. Instead pay attention to what excites you.  What would make you feel happy about coming to work? How can you make a difference for others, and more importantly for yourself? 

What's holding you back is your sense of "going it alone."  Currently you are only going through the motions because you don't feel strong enough within yourself to look elsewhere. Instead of spending your time in a job that doesn't make you smile, offer yourself the compassion you share with others.  Take your abilities into another job where you are truly appreciated and rewarded for your work. 

Dear Angels,
"I just recently had a miscarriage. Will I ever be able to have children?"  Brittany, Melrose, FL

Dear Brittany,
You probably know that the Angels do not predict the future, but they do share what appears to be occurring. What they are showing me is that this miscarriage has trashed your picture of how you expected your life to evolve. You are feeling emotionally unbalanced, alternating between "Why me?" and feeling angry.  You question now if you will ever be able to carry to term.

Your challenge is to release your sense of injustice and allow yourself to heal.  What appears to be the worst has happened, which leaves you with an opportunity to honor yourself, heal your body, and try again.  It also looks like you have a strong bond with your husband.  Put your mind on creating a wonderful everyday life together and not on baby, baby, baby.

If you can be patient, appreciate your relationship, and move forward in your life in other ways, you will have another chance.

Dear Angels,
"Will me and my husband get our granddaughter back or will her mother?  She has her now but is doing drugs and drinking."  Shirley, Mustang, TX

Dear Shirley,
This is such a difficult situation.   I can understand your concern and sadness.  It looks as if your daughter is in no position to take care of her child.   

What the Angels are showing me is that you will have the baby returned to your loving arms, but you will have to be patient. Your daughter is in a difficult life situation and not competent to care for her own because of her addictions.  The baby will be returned to you to love and raise as your own, but you might have to be patient for a while longer.

Dear Angels,
"I would like to ask my angels if I will ever feel happy and content in my marriage?"  Noreen, Bexhill on Sea, E. Sussex

Dear Noreen,
At a high enough level of consciousness, we can create a form of happiness by leaving our bodies on the outside and finding the God within.  Like the prisoner in a camp where he is abused daily, half starved, and beaten, who manages to be released well into old age, physically debilitated but choosing to live in a state of peace.

You are not imprisoned physically, you only feel like you are.  What I see is that you are emotionally upended.  You have chosen to ignore what your inner wisdom tells you.  Instead you have lost your will, your sense of security and confidence in your own abilities. You no longer believe in yourself. You are feeling insecure and  unable to stand on your own. 

Noreen, you are allowing your husband to dump his anger onto you and then assume that he is finished, you can handle it, and begin a new day. Only each day builds on the one before.  You seem stuck, at an impasse that you are unwilling to change.

Your challenge is to realize that this relationship has separated you from not just the people who love you, but from your belief system.  You are a deeply spiritual woman who is not allowing herself to see the truth.  It is time to begin again. To let go, to relax your mind's worries about how you will create enough money to live, and trust that as you allow yourself to move forward without your husband, you will find the joy that eludes you now.

Your Angels are not telling you to divorce.  They are telling you to listen up. Living in a body is about living in joy if you allow yourself to live in love. If you are living in agony, how does that serve God?  It is your job in a body to share happiness not misery.

Dear Angels,
"I am in a relationship with Keith. I'm doing everything I can to stay calm.  It's been a tumultuous 3 months.  I would like to know if I am safe in this relationship and if there is any way that it can work out long term?  Keith says he would like to marry me and have children right away, but I don't know if he is sincere. I don't know if I can trust him. I don't know what lies beneath the surface or if something is seriously wrong with him.  I have doubts all the time and then everything is fine. Please help me."  Elise, Ft. Lauderdale, FL

Dear Elise,
Reading your question, Elise, makes my antennae stand on end.  For you to have so many doubts about your safety and your ability to trust this guy, indicates something is going on. Let's see what your Angels have to say.

Notice for yourself if you are a natural "worrier."  You appear to be hiding out in some way.  It looks like Keith is affectionate, but you are afraid to trust what he says and does.  He is optimistic about your relationship and sees you needing some help right now.  Left on his own, it appears as if his options felt pretty grim. Your sense that he is out of balance is true. Does he alternate  between being a powerful man of the world and an overly sensitive child?  Perhaps before you came into his life, he felt like he had created a mess and by helping you, he feels like he is a good guy after all.

When I ask what you need to see for your Highest Good, I see that you realize you have begun something that will not work for you. You don't feel understood, accepted or secure. You're not trusting him with good reason. You smell failure, maybe even abuse, in the air.

If you can allow yourself to trust your inner Guide, there is a new loving relationship awaiting you. It will appear for you if you are able to let go and move on.

Dear Angels,
"How will things shape up in my present 3 year relationship?  Will they get better and will we be able to spend our lives together?"  Katrina, Colby, WI

Dear Katrina,
Your Angels are showing me you are having a difficult time because you are not moving forward in your relationship in the way you anticipated.  This is a heavy burden for you to carry.  You would like to begin again with this man,  to create what you hope will be the perfect relationship.

He seems to see you as the perfect woman for him and yet he is not willing to take a stand.  His fear is holding him back. If this man is already married, or in a some kind of committed relationship, he is only going through the motions, and yet, he is unable to leave. He seems to be overwhelmed by the whole issue. 

The challenge is your relationship is split between his wife and you, and things are not moving in the way you anticipated.  Your guy seems unable to let to because his wife has refused to let go of him with out bleeding him dry physically and/or fiscally. He is afraid of the consequences.  There is nothing you can do.  You must let him decide his life for himself. 

You can live this way forever, or you can choose again.  As wonderful as he may appear, you will not benefit if he refuses to move on, whatever the reason. 

Dear Angels,
"I often think I hear my husband (passed) speak to me as I am drifting to sleep.  Is this my imagination?"  Pat, UK


Dear Pat,
No, I don't think so.  The time right before we fall asleep and just after we awake, is a kind of halfway house between our rational, everyday thought, and the spirit world.  

What I see about your marriage was that you were the partner who worked on your relationship. You were the one who took your commitment seriously. Your husband was not always so giving, or caring. Now your husband would like to make amends and allow the two of you to move on. He is hoping to receive forgiveness, but there is still something selfish about him, as if he thinks that by receiving your forgiveness, his job is over.

What your Angels are saying is that to learn to forgive the unforgivable is one of the main lessons of life in a body.  However, we each need to learn for ourselves.  You can no longer do his work, only your own to bring yourself peace, clear your personal slate, and move on.

Dear Angels,
"It feels as though I have truly gotten to the core of what was holding me back from my full potential. This was a big shift!  Am I correct that 2010 is truly my year to manifest all my dreams thus far because I'm ready?"  Carolyn, Stoneham, MA

Dear Carolyn,
It appears that although you think you are ready, but the Universe is not so sure.  At least in the immediate future, it looks like the time is not right for the moving forward of your plans. You have spent a lot of time thinking about what you want and how to create it, but it still looks like you are not seeing clearly. Can it be that you are human and think the way the rest of us do?

Is it possible you were thinking of surrendering to God the way I was?  Here's what I was doing , which by the way, my Al Anon group thought was hysterical. I had a picture of how I wanted my business to go. In no uncertain terms I told God that this is what I wanted and the way I thought it should come about.  Uh huh...Unfortunately, God and I had a different viewpoint.  The idea is that you form the picture in your mind, work up your enthusiasm, and hold the finished product in your mind's eye.  You do not tell God how you expect Him to go about it. It's funny now, but it sure slowed things down. 

Your Angels are saying you need to muster the enthusiasm to get you through this intermediate time by holding a clear picture of your dream and by letting go of your discouragement, even depression.  In the place of kicking yourself in the butt, the Universe cannot send you what you want. 

It looks as if you would like to be happily married and that is a definite possibility. What can get in your way is the fear that this relationship brings up.  This is true for every issue we all have. 

Everything you desire, Carolyn, is within reach. It is attainable by trusting in the Divine, acting as if what you want has already happened, and getting out of the way to allow what you want to come to pass.  Of course at the same time, you need to take action while still holding the picture of what you really want.

If you think this is impossible, it is not. However, it is tricky because for many of us, it requires unused skills.  Think of it this way.  For centuries we have been told what to do. Our power was usurped  by those who set themselves up as "the authority,"  whether religious, political, or the everyday garden variety of "the boss," at home and at work. Now we are learning that the Divinity is within all.  That elicits, "Me, too?  I have power? I can create? I matter?"

If creating what you want seems to take a little longer than  expected, give yourself a break. You can't become expert at most things without spending time bumping your head, rerouting, and trying again, and again...and again.

Already your Angels are celebrating you as if, because that they know, you are.

Dear Angels,
I recently took a job that I thought was perfect for me.  I am struggling with these tough kids and their issues as well as the new boss who's abusive.  What is the Angels advice on how to make this work?  Or does it not work for me?  I thought this was a gift but now it is looking like a Trojan horse.  I need guidance here.  I feel so emotionally vulnerable."  Katie,Barnes, WI

Dear Katie,
You look like you are having a tough time, period. I see that you are a deeply spiritual woman with traditional values. Your naturally loving ways, which you share at this job, do not seem to make a difference. Your Angels indicate you are working diligently, not making much money, and doing your best, but inside, you want to scream with frustration.

What I'm hearing is that, if you choose, you can begin to look elsewhere while maintaining this job.  As you take control for yourself by acknowledging that this behavior is not what you deserve from the kids or your supervisor, then you can work on yourself by changing your attitude, forgiving the whole bunch of them, and opening to a new position that is better suited to you. 

It is obvious that you are well-intentioned and thought you could make a positive difference in your field.  Perhaps you did not expect to deal with people so opposite in goals and desires from you. Or perhaps you are required to exhibit more compassion than you have available right now. Maybe you are the one needing to be nurtured and offered a healing place before you can help another.