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Dear Angels,
"I lost my job on 18-05-09.  After that I tried so many jobs. But I was unable to join anywhere.  Now, I am in depression also. Kindly tell me when I will get a job? I already visited so many temples and performed poojas. Also visited different astrologers.  Please help me.  My job is very necessary to my family." Venkata, India

Dear Venkata,
It appears as if you and someone, probably in your family, have been going round and round on this job challenge and it is causing dissension.  Perhaps you have not been honest with yourself.In any case, circumstances have not been favorable.

Things look like they are changing for the better. If you have creative abilities, now is the time to pursue them. It looks as if you have the ability to put together a plan for business that will work if you carry it out.  Perhaps it will be with someone you have worked with before, or just continuing something you had begun before, will work as well.

What seems to hold you back is that you do not want to do jobs beneath your ego's idea of what is suitable.  Perhaps you are feeling that the jobs that are available are not suitable for a person of your stature.  Or maybe it is that you think these jobs are too unusual, too non-traditional, for you to pay attention. 

Your Angels are saying that it appears as if you are not interested at taking a job beneath your  abilities.  Or maybe a job that is not traditional.  But in fact, there is something here for you if you allow yourself to open to the unexpected. It all depends on how badly you want to work.

Dear Angels,
"I have been in a relationship with Brian for 11 years.  We have a two-year old son together. For the last six months we've been living apart with the idea that we would save our money to move into a better place.

I know the best thing is to move on, since I have not felt very important in this relationship. This move back to my mom's was supposed to see if he would make my son and me a priority in his life.
When he comes to visit periodically, his visits are short and he has lots of reasons why he can't be with us. When we are together he just watches TV. Now he's angry because I don't want to move back in with him.

I know this relationship is not good for me, but why am I feeling like I could have done something different? Why won't he fight for us since he says that is what he wants? I feel like I failed him by not being unconditionally loving of who he is.  "If only I did something different..." keeps running through my mind.  I'm so stuck and so sad.  Please help me."  Allison, Tempe, AZ

Dear Allison,
Notice that this "love" of yours has managed to ignore you all the while being angry that you don't want to be with him.  Huh?  Your Angels tell me this guy if not well mentally. He is so self-centered that he doesn't see things clearly. He has nothing to offer you and is not willing to change.  One of the reasons you are still connected is because you are unwilling to let go.  You are still doing your best to pull him toward you, giving him the opportunity to resist you and pretend to himself that he doesn't need you. It's the neediness that is doing him in, and you too.

Your Angels tell me this is not the first lifetime you have done your dance together. You were miserable last time and now you are reliving it. For the sake of your son, not to mention your own well-being, it is time to release him.  You cannot move forward in his life prison.

What choice do you have?  When you live with him you are miserable and berated. When you live without him you are miserable as well.  No one can make this decision except you.  The positive thing you can do for yourself is to realize you have been together many years in this lifetime and others.  The peace and love you want will not come from him. He is unable to offer what he doesn't have for himself.

It is Brian's pattern to knock you down, then step on you and your son to build himself up.  Is this what you want for your child? Is this what you want for your life? Even if he has been reasonably "nice" to your son, that will change as your boy grows into manhood.  His father will bring him down to try to match his behavior to his own. FYI, your guy seems to be exhibiting addictive behavior.  I am not a trained psychologist, but I do listen in my Al-Anon group weekly.

One of the most challenging lessons in life is we can only change ourselves. We cannot change another. You have given him plenty of rope and he is doing his best to lasso you again and then strangle you with it.  Perhaps it is time for you to find a friendly therapist who can support you into letting go.  Your life cannot and will not move forward under his thumbs.

Dear Angels,
"What does it mean when you find a beautiful orange butterfly/black butterfly in your bedroom in January?"  Susan, UK

Dear Susan,
It's a good thing the Angels speak in a language I can understand, because personally, I haven't a clue.  If it were up to me, I would tell you the heat came on in your bedroom full blast and our butterfly hatched.

First of all, what I'm seeing about you is that you have been in a shadowy place with not much emotional support, either from another or from yourself.  Now you are ready to open up to something new and leave behind what hasn't worked.

Some times this is challenging to do because everything seems okay, but there is that critical piece missing.  Now is the time to put together the whole package.  You can do this.  Your challenge is to listen to the wisdom of your heart and then to move forward.

What I'm hearing is your butterfly is guidance from someone who loves you who's passed on, probably your Grandmother.  Also notice is there is a guy in your life who seems to understand you and  that this guy seems to have your best interests at heart. You two connect differently from others you have attracted.  That is because you have lifetimes of experience together. 

It appears as if your Grandmother likes him and wants you to be open to connecting with him in a more expansive way than you have before.  You two share a heart connection from other lifetimes.

That being said, please feed this through your heart and your brain and then act!

Dear Angels,
"I would like to ask if everything is going to be all right with me?  All my electrical appliances keep breaking down.  I so much want to move out of this house as it is really bad luck for me." 
Julie, Manchester, U.K.

Dear Julie,
At first I thought maybe you had ghosts in your house, but that's not it. What your Angels are showing me is that you have been contemplating what to do for awhile, but you're hanging on to living where you are and your life situation.

You seem not to be able to think clearly. Your thinking seems to be erratic and your life off balance.  Notice if you are behaving in a self-destructive way, perhaps drinking and smoking too much and using these as a coping strategy. You are afraid to move forward and afraid you don't have what it takes to be successful, when in fact, it is clearly time for you to get moving to break this bind. 

Alcoholic tendencies continue to block your emotional ability to create the smooth and loving life you would like to live.

Dear Angels,
"I'd love your input regarding the intense energy work I've been doing on myself for the past several months to clear away emotional blocks on my path to health and well-being.  Sometimes it feels as if I've not made much progress with the way my physical body still feels, yet I know that the energy must have changed on some level.  What can you tell me? Thanks so much for your wisdom." 
Clare, Santa Rosa, CA

Dear Clare,
You seem to be in one of those places where nothing much is happening.  Everything is okay, but your determined clearing of your past, known and unknown, has left you a little foggy.  You are having trouble "moving forward," creating the spiritual give and take that you want in your life. 

You seem to have a tough taskmaster within you, who, just as you are ready to step out and take a couple of emotional steps forward, pulls you back. What your Angels are saying is that this is one of those times where we over-think.  You seem to have a picture of what you imagine might be what you would like to do with your life, but can't quite get yourself to move in that direction.  You see yourself  with the possibility of being an accomplished entrepreneur, but somehow, it doesn't get off the ground.  Your Angels are pretty insistent with  "It's one step at a time,  and a baby step is fine!"  There is no magic course or clearing that will propel you where you want to go. It's one little toe at a time into the water, until you figure out how to sink or swim.  If you sink, you will find a new path. 

There are no mistakes in life. Just untried opportunities. Or tried opportunities you wish you hadn't taken.  Either way, to break the stranglehold of physical passivity and the resulting emotional instability, jumping off the high dive is the most interesting. You will find out quickly what you need to do to keep afloat and what you need to release.

Is it possible, Clare, that you are stuck in the feminine fear and resulting quandary, of standing up for yourself and what you believe, and then taking action?  Notice for yourself if your lack of physical vitality offers you the excuse to not "go for it?"

Dear Angels,
"Things are hard on us and now more sickness in the family. How will everything end up for us?  I try not to worry but it is hard."  Carmel, Mesa, AZ

Dear Carmel,
I see that you are going through a difficult time. You seem to be on a conscious spiritual path and wondering why is all of this happening to you and your family.  You may even be feeling a little  outside the spiritual loop, as in "Why me? Why my family?"  Your challenge is to make peace with those close to you, even if you don't approve of their choices. 

What's come up is about forgiveness.  It appears as if there is an unsatisfactory relationship, probably a marriage, that you were hoping would work out well, and hasn't. What the Angels are showing me is that the money situation is okay, just not abundant. What is really bothering you is your sensitivity and the fact that it is important for you to be in control.  Perhaps because of that, your relationship has not produced the anticipated reward. 

Is it possible that you feel like an outsider in your own family and that others seem to have a stronger, more loving bond between themselves than with you?  If this rings true for you, then ask yourself if you are seeing them as the problem and not looking at yourself. Your Angels are saying clearly, "Perceived issues are always about you first." 

Dear Angels,
"For pretty much all of my life, I have been living with financial worries and problems, but now it has really taken its toll on my lately, particularly on an emotional level.  I was wondering if my financial situation would improve, and if so, will it be any time soon."  Art, Houston, TX.

Dear Art,
Your Angels are showing me you're a guy who knows how to laugh and likes to have a good time. You seem to have a sweet disposition and a nice attitude.  It appears, and I can certainly be wrong, that your woman is extremely difficult. When you first met her you probably thought she was the "top of the line."  Now, however, she seem to be your nemesis.  Although she can be sexy and lovely to look at, she oozes negativity, tends to be self-centered and maybe even greedy.  It's "her way or the highway" as they used to say.

If I am seeing this correctly, this woman would yank anybody down. It's impossible to let life flow surrounded with this energy.  You two are locked in a stranglehold and it's time for you to move on. I know you asked about your finances, but all parts of our life connect.  When we can't see straight in one part of our life, the other parts suffer as well. You are being beaten emotionally. Your heart is wounded and you keep bumping up against the same problems and what she says is your fault.  You are starting to believe it.

You don't have to be rich to have a beautiful life.  You do have to learn to appreciate your own gifts. which are being pummeled into the ground by someone who is so forceful and so over-bearing that you are unable to move forward in a way that welcomes in abundance.

If you are able to admit that your relationship is not healthy; that you have done everything you know how to do and she is not within your control; and that you will be better off without her, even if you think you will have even less money, you will find the happiness which eludes you now.

Some times we forget that happiness doesn't come from the money we have to spend but from the joy in our hearts. You already have that. Reclaim the love for yourself that you know how to give.

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Dear Angels,
"I want to ask if a new love will enter my life soon?"  Doreen, Socorro, TX

Dear Doreen,
When I ask about you and guys, I see two opposing sides of you.  One side of you charges ahead, impatient in your desire to meet and connect;  the other side of you is vulnerable, sensitive and maybe a little afraid she'll be trampled on.

When someone does approach you, you consciously and unconsciously both, pull back emotionally because your mind is remembering the pain of the past. Your big challenge is to forgive and let go of what's gone down in the past. If you are going to carry your past with you, then carry it as a lesson and set your intention that you will take better care of yourself this time. Instead what happens is you lose your sweetness.  You lead with your judgment and not your heart.

It looks as if you have drawn up barriers around you that have become an obstacle course for a guy to navigate before he can befriend you, and certainly before you will let him near you.

Now you are in a place where you think you would like to have a committed relationship.
Your Angels are saying you can create one.  Try a different approach. Create the intention of the kind of man you would like to befriend and love.  Then put your judgment on the shelf.  No one is perfect.  Some things matter more than others.  Pick the qualities that matter and give those guys a break. 

Let the "good guys" across the moat into your heart.  As it stands now, you have the drawbridge up and arrows drawn, waiting for one false move.  Try the other way. Be open to loving and you will attract someone you don't have to defend against.

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Dear Angels,
"I have a young biz partner, 26 yrs. old.  We prospected together, and shared appointments.  This resulted in a high number of activities. Recently he's been negative, has low energy, and it's draining me.

My sales trainer says I need to have someone to work the biz with me.  I've lost my direction.The young guy wants to come back.  Shall I continue this heavy relationship?  Or shall I work with my business trainer in L.A. who is two hours away? It's too hard to prospect and work on presentations with such a large distance."  Mary Lee, San Diego

Dear Mary Lee,
I see that you are conscientious and ready to move forward. You're tired of waiting around for something to happen when it is not. All of this is no fun for you and doesn't give you the money you deserve. Obviously, this business as it is, is not working for either you or your partner.
You are someone who goes for what she wants, but your young partner wants quick success.  Perhaps he thinks he can "get rich quick" and doesn't need the everyday consistency it takes to create success.  Now he sees that it's not so easy and wants to return to work with you again.

What your Angels are showing me is that he is a smart, but impatient, young man who can "step on his own feet."   If something doesn't go his way, he will make it look like it was your fault. You can't really win with this guy, because he can be both sarcastic and downright annoying.

If you work this territory on your own, you have the passion and the ability, but you will feel as if it is too much.  The demands of running this territory on your own may overtax you. You may wonder why you ever wanted to do this to begin with.  If you go back to your LA. trainer, you will find yourself fitting in, things smoothing out, and you will feel like you have made the right decision.

Perhaps you could rent your home and move temporarily to L.A.?

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Dear Angels,
"I was wondering if my angels could give me insight on my finances right now.  I work staying positive, because I believe that once I surrender to fear it will swallow me up, and that's not a good place for anyone to work from.  Thanks for your gift."  Kat, San Diego

Dear Kat.
Kat, what I see is that you, like the rest of us, are all in the financial soup together. There is nothing much to do.  Trying to control this situation is similar to putting your finger in the dike. It might work for awhile, but sooner or later, you will be overwhelmed  and get washed away with the rest of us.

The Angels tell me the current global financial situation  is about living in integrity and learning to trust in the Unseen. Isn't it ironic that "In God we trust" is actually printed on our money?  Obviously, we have a lot to learn. Our desire to control life leads us in the exact opposite direction. 

As for you personally, your Angels are showing me you understand that holding on is a third dimensional misguided thought that brings the opposite of what we really want.  Allowing ourselves to look at things differently, and realizing that we are learning to trust in what we don't see in the physical, is the lesson needed to be learned to propel us in the 4th and 5th dimensions. 

You are on your way.  Who said, "Hey, it's only money..."  Probably somebody in Debtors Anonymous, huh.